"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need help Escalating

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Furyguy

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I have gotten over my approach anxiety. Now I am met with Escalation anxiety.

Specifically when it comes time to make a move on a girl, but only with a girl that I care about. Just going in for the kiss scares the hell out of me to the point where I sometimes can't do it.

I do fine with random hoes in bars/clubs/parties, that isn't the problem. Just when I feel like some girl actually matters to me it is soooo hard to go for that first kiss. Anyone have any practical tips or suggestions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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whenever you feel its right....when your body first tells you yes dont tink it twice...just look at her at the lips and pucker up
 
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just pay attention to her body language, and eye contact when it comes to the right time.. If yall watchin a movie or somethin.. it'll be a moment when yall just look at each other and kiss.. Or after yall get together and are about to say bye.. after the hug just kiss her.... if shes chillin with you a lot.. shes gonna kiss you
 
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Do you guys think it matters what the girl's personality is? Like... is it a good idea to treat a shy girl exactly like you would any other, or give her maybe til the second date to go in for the goodnight kiss? I suppose if she's become comfortable around you by the end of the night it'll be obvious... and that's the only condition that really matters.
 
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