"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KnockoutJM

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Hello everyone.. was hoping someone can offer me advice to a problem ive been having.. Here it goes:

I met a girl about 5 weeks ago, hooked up with her all night.. and got the number and everything. I called her, and we went out a bunch of times. we both had a great time. I know I did, and we have common friends who all told me she wanted to go out with me again, and that she had a great time..
Anyways, I was planned to take her out a few nights ago, and during the day her parents werent home so i went to her house and we were hooking up, having fun. As i was leaving she said can't wait to see you tonight, and she said "call me in a little while after my parents are home." (she also just lost her cell, so house is the only way i reach her)
So i called her, and someone in her family told me she went out with one of her friends and that she would leave a message. She never called back, and is randomly avoiding me, and i just dont understand what happened.

I'm guess im just looking to see what i should do.. Should i just leave it alone, and move on, or should i try to talk to her? I have called her house other times too but she is never home.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Her parents probably killed her and buried her under the patio
 

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i was reading your story and it sounded like she was all into you...
and then i got to the part where she never called back and is never home and all that.
perhaps her parents found out that you were hooking up and she is grounded and they are just telling you she is not there to get you to leave her alone.
 

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Women are weird. I once knocked college for the day and went to this chicks house to **** her, I've NEVER had a chick so into me in my life than she was. Then she got all pissy on me because I wouldn't give her a rating out of 10 for the blow job she gave me. She claimed she never liked me and that she slept with me and gave me a **** ******* because she felt bad for me and was just stringing me along. I called her bull**** but she was like yeh. I saw her in a club about a month ago and she came chatting to me, I recognised her but I'd forgot her name.
 

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i dont know what is up.

Her parents seem to like me, they havent said anything, and i dont think they could have found out. But we have a few mutual friends, and one of them told me that she doesnt have a reason to not talk to me, and he said that she doesnt want to get too serious too fast (me neither).

We are also both going away to different schools in the fall, so idk if it is worth it to keep trying to talk to her, or just go our seperate ways..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dude you've phoned she didn't return your call just next her seriously
 
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