"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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surface1030

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okay. ive finished the bible and have all this confidence. i actually smiled at a beautiful girl today at baskin robbins. i was already helped and when she walked in, the guy asked me what i wanted i said, shes next. and she smiled at me and i smiled back. i feel sooooooooo good.

okay but thats not the post, lol

my neighbor is around 21 and i'm only 16. when she went out with my brother, i knew she had these sex feelings for me. yes i know its weird. the way she spoke to me and looked at me. touched me alot! and complimented me on my great looks and everything. the way she moved her body while looking at me really gave me the clue. even my brother knew it. now that they are broken up, she's always asking me if i need a ride. ( i'm always rollerblading around and everytime she passes, hey john do you need a ride?). anyways, now that they are broken up, i want to get in for the sex part. she has a bf right now, but i know ( you can so tell ) that she just wants me for sex and i feel the same way for her. next time she asks me for a ride, i want to know what to say to her to know that i only want to have sex with her. how do i start this conversation? i know how to end it can you write up a conversation kinda so i can get a better viewpoint of how i should talk to her. i know if i get it right, i'll have her in a second. Don Juan's, help me.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Next time you see her, if you have nothing to start a conversation about, just be like "Hey, hows it going? What are you up to?" Just go from there. It's quite easy. Good luck.
 

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Is there not a post in the bible about "looking to deep" into signs, exc...? Hmmmm....:confused:

You want her...go after her, nuff said....:D
 

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i am going after her. next time she asks me for a ride, i'm gonna tell her yeah. in the car, i want to say something that will tell her 100% that when we get back to my house we'll fvck. she already gave me her number. like i was thinking after she gives me a ride, i'll say like, i have to repay you somehow. i'll give you a ride of own, lol

is that good or is that not enough or too much
 

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I wouldn't go for any of the corny lines or anything. If you think she's already into you for sex, just let her give you a ride..start some convo (keep away from the fluffy talk) and see if she invites you in. Chances are, if she wants you that bad, she'll let you in. You don't need any fancy lines to get girls in bed. Looks like you're already on the right track man. Good luck
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Besides "Let's fuck" I don't think that there's any other way to say something in the conversation to get you sex just like that. What you need to do is quit seeking for permission. If she wants it as bad as you do, then act like it. Don't act like you want it so much, but aren't sure if she wants it or if she'll let you. ACT LIKE SHE WANTS IT IF SHE DOES.

Jesus.

Anyways, the best thing you can do is have her alone and kiss her. Or ask to speak to her privately when she's home and then start making out with her. Forget stupid talking, you only want her for sex. Leave the emotion for someone else. If she wants you the same way you want her, what would you do if she just grabbed you and started making out with you? Not much to stop her I bet. Want something, go take it. Be a man about it and quit looking for work-arounds. What's the worst that could happen? She says no?

If she says no, then you were wrong all along. Don't give her time to decide if you're worth it or not. She wants it, so give it to her.
 
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