"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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need help dj's

surface1030

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okay. ive finished the bible and have all this confidence. i actually smiled at a beautiful girl today at baskin robbins. i was already helped and when she walked in, the guy asked me what i wanted i said, shes next. and she smiled at me and i smiled back. i feel sooooooooo good.

okay but thats not the post, lol

my neighbor is around 21 and i'm only 16. when she went out with my brother, i knew she had these sex feelings for me. yes i know its weird. the way she spoke to me and looked at me. touched me alot! and complimented me on my great looks and everything. the way she moved her body while looking at me really gave me the clue. even my brother knew it. now that they are broken up, she's always asking me if i need a ride. ( i'm always rollerblading around and everytime she passes, hey john do you need a ride?). anyways, now that they are broken up, i want to get in for the sex part. she has a bf right now, but i know ( you can so tell ) that she just wants me for sex and i feel the same way for her. next time she asks me for a ride, i want to know what to say to her to know that i only want to have sex with her. how do i start this conversation? i know how to end it can you write up a conversation kinda so i can get a better viewpoint of how i should talk to her. i know if i get it right, i'll have her in a second. Don Juan's, help me.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Next time you see her, if you have nothing to start a conversation about, just be like "Hey, hows it going? What are you up to?" Just go from there. It's quite easy. Good luck.
 

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Is there not a post in the bible about "looking to deep" into signs, exc...? Hmmmm....:confused:

You want her...go after her, nuff said....:D
 

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i am going after her. next time she asks me for a ride, i'm gonna tell her yeah. in the car, i want to say something that will tell her 100% that when we get back to my house we'll fvck. she already gave me her number. like i was thinking after she gives me a ride, i'll say like, i have to repay you somehow. i'll give you a ride of own, lol

is that good or is that not enough or too much
 

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I wouldn't go for any of the corny lines or anything. If you think she's already into you for sex, just let her give you a ride..start some convo (keep away from the fluffy talk) and see if she invites you in. Chances are, if she wants you that bad, she'll let you in. You don't need any fancy lines to get girls in bed. Looks like you're already on the right track man. Good luck
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Besides "Let's fuck" I don't think that there's any other way to say something in the conversation to get you sex just like that. What you need to do is quit seeking for permission. If she wants it as bad as you do, then act like it. Don't act like you want it so much, but aren't sure if she wants it or if she'll let you. ACT LIKE SHE WANTS IT IF SHE DOES.

Jesus.

Anyways, the best thing you can do is have her alone and kiss her. Or ask to speak to her privately when she's home and then start making out with her. Forget stupid talking, you only want her for sex. Leave the emotion for someone else. If she wants you the same way you want her, what would you do if she just grabbed you and started making out with you? Not much to stop her I bet. Want something, go take it. Be a man about it and quit looking for work-arounds. What's the worst that could happen? She says no?

If she says no, then you were wrong all along. Don't give her time to decide if you're worth it or not. She wants it, so give it to her.
 
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