"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NEED help Cousin big time AFC!

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Hey guys I need some help, My cousin is usually with me when I go DJ'ng(lol) and I've been trying to make him my wing but he is so afraid to talk to girls! I ask him to go talk to some girls but he says "Nah" "NO" all the time its becoming very very annoying to me and am thinking about just going out by myself from now on. What's even worse is he's always saying "Ohhh man look at that chic she has a nice ..(Whatever) I would love to F2ck the sh1t out of her!" so then I say "Go talk to her" then he comes up with some lame excuse after another "She's to young," "She's a butter" and it keeps going on and on. He is only 2 years older then me and I feel bad for him I think its because during High school he got rejected and got put into the LJBF category with 3 girls. He always says "You dont know about rejection!" but I always think those"Rejections" were right because he showed AFC behavior and didnt show his feelings right to the girls whats even funnier is he has those girls on his Mysapce page and most of them have kids and hes still friends with them.:eek: I need help , can someone tell me what to do so this scrub can get his Balls back !
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think you should have enough respect for your brother than to splatter his personal life in a public forum, you should feel ashamed of yourself.


Anyways, as for your situation...

I think that your brother has not had as easy time as he might have liked with women... And it caused him a backtrack with confidence etc... But you are his brother.. you are this DJ confident guy, right?
... So why don’t you go up to the girls and invite them over for a drink with you and your brother? help him instead of making him feel ever worse and embarrassed about his lack of confidence / experience ... Now stop acting like he is some stranger to you, give him a helping hand, show him you love him and that you really care about him, its much better than creating all these bad memories and bad vibes!


Laterz...
 
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Brother? Its actually my cousin and everyone has their own problems to deal with and everyone can find their own way to happiness. I dont have to look out for him hes his own person if he wants to stay this way thats his problem, I was just trying to find some helpful tips from you guys to maybe give him something to think about and maybe get that "Who cares anymore" attitude but guess you took it the wrong way and your images didnt pop up sorrry.
 
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People should read this and compare themselves to this guys cousin to realize how far you got with all this stuff. :yes:
 
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j0n024 Cousin / brother - Its still family bro. You live once, so why not help your cousin out if he needs a little push? I dont see the problem. There are many many guys out there with the same or similar problems that your cousin has with women/confidence etc, but a little help could make all the difference! So in my opinion the best help you can give him is not bad mouthing him on a public forum (I'm sure he wouldnt be happy if he read this thread, not so?) but rather show him how to "play the game", show him there is nothing to be "scared" about, take the lead, be the alpha and do what you do best? This should be a simple enough task... Unless you're also a little... shy perhaps? :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hey, you can't help the guy if he doesn't want help.

and i agree with climax, you talk like you have game, go up to a table of women and wave him in later. or take them to your table. introduce a really chatty woman to him. take action man!
 
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Ya I hear you guys I actually thought about what you said climax the first time and figured out how to help him out. I open the girls or women and I make him take over when he feels like it, I sorta step out of the way so he can pick which one he wants and gain confidence I just step back and watch him work 2 sets or 3 sets today he actually was with a 4 set! I havent even been able to do that by myself!!!! So thanks guys you really helped me out climax!
 
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always a pleasure jon... Your intentions are right and you just handled the situation in the best way that you thought, so you deserve credit for that!

Hope it all works out for you and your cousin! :up:
 
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