Need help coming up with a flirty response on dating site

[ateo]

Okay well, I'm usually good at making a women laugh but I'm not good at flirting. Please help me with a reponse to this chat.


Me: I lost my teddy bear, can I cuddle wit you?
Her: lol that was cute. hows it going?
Me: Just studying right now before going to the bmx park. What about you? You staying out of trouble?
Her: lol trying to. can't say the same about tomorrow though. How are you? Studying huh? did it go well? And gosh, your "what kinda girl do you like" was hillarriousss.
Me: lol, so now that you know the kind of girl i like, what kind of guy do you desire??
Her: lol, um well they have to have a good sense of humor. I can't take on someone boring. Um loyalty and honesty? lol that sounds queer but it's important! anything else is just added. lol and what are/were you studying for?
Me: ______________


What do I reply back? Should I tell her what I am studying or use it in a way to flirt back (and how)???

And how could I have improved the chat even more??


Thanks in advance!

 

[I'm in the Mood]

I swear they should put some kind of disclaimer on the first page of this site....

Whatever you decide to say will work as long as you're confident and not creepy or weird.
What you say next will set the stage for the next leg of your conversation so reply "hinting" at something you like to talk about.

I would definitely recommend either pulling interest away or #/date closing right now. You have rapport and attraction, and I would save qualification for the end of your first date to decide whether you go on a second date or not.

Internet shyt is awkward man. Stay away from that, it doesn't help your game very much at all.

Fyi every line you typed was flirting...
"I lost my teddy bear, can I cuddle with you?" Cute, but not so much manly or attractive.
Cats and dogs are cute. If you're going after girls who are frisky enough to fvck pets, then by all means be cute.

You would have been much better off just saying "Wanna cuddle?"

 

[Solomon]

*sigh*


Please do yourself a favor, log off the comp and go outside an talk to some real women.....

 

[ateo]

I swear they should put some kind of disclaimer on the first page of this site....

Whatever you decide to say will work as long as you're confident and not creepy or weird.
What you say next will set the stage for the next leg of your conversation so reply "hinting" at something you like to talk about.

I would definitely recommend either pulling interest away or #/date closing right now. You have rapport and attraction, and I would save qualification for the end of your first date to decide whether you go on a second date or not.

Internet shyt is awkward man. Stay away from that, it doesn't help your game very much at all.

Fyi every line you typed was flirting...
"I lost my teddy bear, can I cuddle with you?" Cute, but not so much manly or attractive.
Cats and dogs are cute. If you're going after girls who are frisky enough to fvck pets, then by all means be cute.

You would have been much better off just saying "Wanna cuddle?"

Gotcha. And I don't plan to meet this girl because of the akwardness like you mentioned. I am just doing this for practice purposes. But I do understand I must try this offline females.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Gotcha. And I don't plan to meet this girl because of the akwardness like you mentioned. I am just doing this for practice purposes. But I do understand I must try this offline females.

Why are you talking to her like THAT if you don't even want to meet her?

Practice purposes?
If you don't have another date, this girl would be your best best to practice dating. Why stay talking to some random person online when you could be interacting with them in real life?

Man chit-chat isn't practice, it's more of an activity. That's why girls like to talk with each other instead of say, playing video games if they have nothing better to do.

Since I'm the dominant voice in this thread, I'm going to tell you that you have to completely amp up your effort on improving your game if you want to see some success. Whether it's by reading books on seduction, going out and actually practicing, making more girl/guy friends, or taking on more social hobbies, you MUST try harder than that.

Starting a conversation online is bullshyt man, just go to any forum and start typing. That really improves your game doesn't it? No. It may allow you to exercise your creativity, but it doesn't truly help your game. You gotta put yourself in some uncomfortable and/or new situations to really make an impact on your life and learn from experiences.