Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need help choosing a nonfiction book related to US history

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I am taking a history class and have to do a report on a non fiction book that has to do with US history. This can include biographies as long as the subject was/is a US citizen. The subject of the book has to be after the cival war but not past the 1980s. It can ONLY be nonfiction; he will not allow fiction that had a profound impact on US history such as 1984 or The Jungle.

I'm more of a novel reader myself, so I'm looking for suggestions. I have to choose the book before class tomarrow night (report is due months from now). Length is not an issue - readability is all I care about.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thanks, but I don't think those are books. A biography of Al Capone might be interesting though, if there is one.
 

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If you're looking for titles the American Library Associations website has recommended titles here: Non fiction titles are at the bottom and you can search by year.

http://www.ala.org/ala/rusa/rusaprotools/rusanotable/thelists/notablebooks.htm


Here are some titles I found from their site:

1. Theodore Rex-Biography of Teddy Roosevelt

2. Black Hawk Down: A Story of Modern War.
This relentlessly paced reconstruction of the 1993 Battle of Mogadishu in Somalia exposes in horrifying detail the murkiness of war and the dangers of reliance on fragile military technology.

3. 1968: The Year That Rocked the World. This engrossing account tells the complete story of the global, social, and political upheaval, warfare, and assassinations that define one year in a tumultuous decade.

You could also just browse the history section of your school's library. I'm sure they'll have something that interests you.
 
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oh man. I wish I remembered the name of this one book which carries a bunch of info about american history that you never were taught. Very insightful
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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People's History of the United States by Howard Zinn? Probably not the easiest thing to write a report on, but it's a classic.
 

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Howard Zinn's A People's History: 1492-Present will knock your hair back. It's the most readable history book I've come across. For a slimmer, quicker (but equally-if-not-moreso-interesting) read, check out James Loewen's Lies My Teacher Told Me.

Both are fantastic reads.

For something maybe a bit more novelly, check out Evan Wright's Generation Kill, or Anthony Swofford's Jarhead, two war books I highly enjoyed. Again, two really great reads.
 
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Originally posted by seanchai
People's History of the United States by Howard Zinn? Probably not the easiest thing to write a report on, but it's a classic.
THATS THE DAMN BOOK! get that sh*t
 

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Sounds good, but it's too broad. The book has to be after the civil war and before the 90s.

If Jarhead takes place in Desert Storm like the movie, that's no good either. Too recent.

Yes, my teacher is very anal.
 

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I decided on 1968: The Year That Rocked the World. Thanks all for your help.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My bad.

Originally posted by Shiftkey
The subject of the book has to be after the cival war but not past the 1980s.
Originally posted by Von Neuen
For something maybe a bit more novelly, check out Evan Wright's Generation Kill, or Anthony Swofford's Jarhead, two war books I highly enjoyed.
I can't read or write.
 
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