salinechow
Senior Don Juan
Guys, WTF. Help me break down this "oneitis" BS. Seriously, now Im getting pissed. What was your experience and how did you fix it?
I have been pouring over this excellent website but I still cannot gather the answers to this whilst implementing to perfection the strategies set forth by all of the master DJs here and the DJ Bible. Help.
I was at a casino this weekend. I was having an excellent time with family. I was interacting with HBs. I floated my # to 2 very fine selections. I implement every strategy here. I add my own flavor and flare. Things go ok.
Here is the question... My grandmother had some health issues while we were away. I have stated before that I have a medical background so of course I was requested to be there in even more of a capacity than I would be even normally. On the third hospital visit during our vacation, the most serious of them all, I was outside sipping some coffee and taking a break, and I am thinking HEAVY about my "oneitis" !!!! What the f^ck is wrong with me!
Almost 50 days NC. I almost caved too. So close. I wanted to text her for the holiday. I don’t want to pass up on even the sliver of hope that she is thinking of me also. So depressing. I know certain things that will probably never make us work out. More than probably. Unlikely. Yet, through all the plate spinning, all the self-improvements, all the new connections, all the overall progress, she consumes me sometimes. All the talks and texts, all the reassurances, all the physical stuff, all the perfect nature in which we existed and shared makes me think I should reach out.
WHY on earth am I even considering this with so much else to deal with and manage? Why would I even consider she is still thinking about me, as much, when she has not reached out? If it ever happened to you please share. Explain how you made it through. Encourage why I should continue without at least trying to rekindle with her. Or, maybe you think I should? Maybe you could encourage me to at least try?
I cannot believe that I still am not over this braud after all the success of thinking I am. WTF!?
If you need insight of our relationship read Lie-lyette under my post Titled: Recovering AFC has an epiphany after 20 years. Still needs help.
Thanks in advance guys.
I have been pouring over this excellent website but I still cannot gather the answers to this whilst implementing to perfection the strategies set forth by all of the master DJs here and the DJ Bible. Help.
I was at a casino this weekend. I was having an excellent time with family. I was interacting with HBs. I floated my # to 2 very fine selections. I implement every strategy here. I add my own flavor and flare. Things go ok.
Here is the question... My grandmother had some health issues while we were away. I have stated before that I have a medical background so of course I was requested to be there in even more of a capacity than I would be even normally. On the third hospital visit during our vacation, the most serious of them all, I was outside sipping some coffee and taking a break, and I am thinking HEAVY about my "oneitis" !!!! What the f^ck is wrong with me!
Almost 50 days NC. I almost caved too. So close. I wanted to text her for the holiday. I don’t want to pass up on even the sliver of hope that she is thinking of me also. So depressing. I know certain things that will probably never make us work out. More than probably. Unlikely. Yet, through all the plate spinning, all the self-improvements, all the new connections, all the overall progress, she consumes me sometimes. All the talks and texts, all the reassurances, all the physical stuff, all the perfect nature in which we existed and shared makes me think I should reach out.
WHY on earth am I even considering this with so much else to deal with and manage? Why would I even consider she is still thinking about me, as much, when she has not reached out? If it ever happened to you please share. Explain how you made it through. Encourage why I should continue without at least trying to rekindle with her. Or, maybe you think I should? Maybe you could encourage me to at least try?
I cannot believe that I still am not over this braud after all the success of thinking I am. WTF!?
If you need insight of our relationship read Lie-lyette under my post Titled: Recovering AFC has an epiphany after 20 years. Still needs help.
Thanks in advance guys.