Need help bros.

[chrono14]

So I had a very old friend. She was a friend of mine during high school. We were not so close that time. Now we've graduated, me and my family went to this city for a vacation. Then she chatted me on facebook that she's here too. So we went out the first time. We ate and had few drinks. After that nothing happened so we went on our homes.

On our second date, which is last night, we decided to watch some movies on her apartment and drink some few light beers. So it happened. We were so sweet. We laughed and talked while watching a movie for about 2 hours. I started notice some SIGNS like she's leaning on my shoulder and being to close to each other. But all of a sudden she told me that she already want to sleep. Then she called her roommate to get back home now.

She seems disappointed. We're both 20 and this is my first time experiencing this kind of date. Does she thinks that i'm too weak? I was looking for the right time but nothing worked. I guess i'm too shy to make the first move. I want to get to her apartment again and try, got any tips and opinions?

thanks

 

[Governator]

hey chrono,

this is interesting. can you kind of explain it better?

try some kino but don't overdo it. i always find watching movies with girls is kind of awkward if it is the first or second date because its like okay what can i get away with that isnt awkward ya know? her feet on your lap is a good way to go i think.

 

[chrono14]

Yes there were a lot of kino. I'm too dumb not to make the move. I'm kinda worried maybe she got turned off.

Right now I'm waiting for her to text me first. If she texts me first, I'll assume that she still likes me.
Any tips on what shall I invite her to do on her appartment? or just movies again?

 

[Poop1337]

You should just text her first and invite her out to do something like it doesn't matter something cheap or free is best. Then get her back to your place and make moves. Are you a never kissed a girl virgin? You should have tried to rub between her legs during the movie. You should have also asked to see her room then thrown her on the bed and seen how much you could do.

 

[chrono14]

I've already had sex with a girl before but it was just a friend's friend on a party, and she was the agressive type, we barely even know each other.

This one's totally different that's why i'm kinda not good at this.

 

[No.Danny]

I feel like you've left out some details

 

[RabidWolverine]

you shouldve made a move on her.

dont underestimate youself next time - the meet up to watch movies, usually = shes letting you TAKE HER and shes ready for sex. now, thats where her end stops cause YOU MUST CONNECT THE DOTS TO SEX!!

you gotta make the first move, bro. sounds like she got a little pissed you didnt do anythng, much less sex. its OK, you'll meet up with her again or youll find another.

anyways, theres no perfect moment to kiss her - settle into the movie, then just ****in' go for it, then escalate to sex.

you did something right cause shes OK with being isolated with you.

wait a few days, text her and try for another meet up. may have to back pedal a little but maybe not, itll depend on how excited she sounds.

if you have questions on escalating or other girl related questions, you can PM

 

[dasein]

This sounds fine so far. Next step is to take the reins and ask this woman out to do something active and fun. Walking, moving near each other lets the kino get started, the "watching movies on the couch" thing will work sometimes, but it's a soul-killer IMO. Get this woman out in the world and start sharing some real experiences and if there's any foundation of attraction, it will grow. Sex will be better also built up in that way, much better than out of boredom or that it's the next step after watching a movie. Good luck.

 

[Poop1337]

Look man you had great opportunities to have sex but since you've never actually initiated sex you were afraid to make any moves. So if you get another chance with this girl make moves and be aggressive. It's ok if she gets upset or it "ruins" your shot. Be aggressive the next time you have a girl alone like that don't just sit and watch the movie then go home. I hope you're trying for round 2 with this girl. Good luck.