need help being more keepable

[fanren]

hey bros
this girl(20) and i(21) have been going out for a couple months. now i dont mean to be ****y but id say im a 8 or 9 whereas she is a 7. i asked her out after seeing that she liked me. i am starting to like her a lot but she just tends to like to say things to trick me sometimes.

after reading a few articles on this site, i changed from the typical nice guy to somewhat more of an alpha male, although i have no intentions to play with her feelings.

so my questions:

1. compliments? if so how often?
2. she seems really dependant and can't make decisions. should i have a "dont give a crap attitude?" or "do as i say" attitude?
3. she might mention some of her guy friends and say "hes really funny" and this has happend about 3 times, should i be careful?
4. she throws jokes like "oh maybe i should date him", ive been pretty good at not acting jealous, is there anything i should do to make her shut up about that?
5. when im done with my class and i want to hang out with her, is it bad to call so often? we live 2 minutes walk from each other.

i guess to sum it up i need a little more specific tips on being more detached. a lot of her friends think i have to hots, and she is also on her peroid, could those be contributing factors?

thanks for reading

 

[spider_007]

1) once in a while when you think she really needs, or deserves it.
2) eather is fine. I perfer; "do as I say". It makes you look like a take charge man. You can use the "I don't give a crap" when you realy don't give a crap. But don't over do it, she might start thinking you don't care about her and are using her. also watchout, they get turned off if you get too controling.
3) Why should you care? not a big deal at all if she saiz that.
YOU ARE A MAN, YOU DON'T GET JELEOUS AND YOU DON'T PLAY GAMES.
4) tell her "feel free, by the way your best friend looks puirty qute, nice round ass". now you wana say that jokingly, with a smile, she'll get the point. Remember, she's got to know you got options,
5) just show up and say, what's up biach..... it's all up to you, you konw haw it goes, play it by the ear.


next time you might wana look through here before you post, they get pissed. http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by fanren
hey bros
this girl(20) and i(21) have been going out for a couple months. now i dont mean to be ****y but id say im a 8 or 9 whereas she is a 7. i asked her out after seeing that she liked me. i am starting to like her a lot but she just tends to like to say things to trick me sometimes.

after reading a few articles on this site, i changed from the typical nice guy to somewhat more of an alpha male, although i have no intentions to play with her feelings.

so my questions:

1. compliments? if so how often?
2. she seems really dependant and can't make decisions. should i have a "dont give a crap attitude?" or "do as i say" attitude?
3. she might mention some of her guy friends and say "hes really funny" and this has happend about 3 times, should i be careful?
4. she throws jokes like "oh maybe i should date him", ive been pretty good at not acting jealous, is there anything i should do to make her shut up about that?
5. when im done with my class and i want to hang out with her, is it bad to call so often? we live 2 minutes walk from each other.

i guess to sum it up i need a little more specific tips on being more detached. a lot of her friends think i have to hots, and she is also on her peroid, could those be contributing factors?

thanks for reading

1) As often as you would like to.
2) She wants you to make the decisions for her! Do it dude!
3) err what's the big deal
4) grin and say "I dare you to"
5) no

 

[Kaine]

1. Compliment on her when you mean it and rarely. Too much of a good thing loses it's a affect. Occassionally take the compliment back (soft neghit).

2. Lead her, women are attracted to men who lead. When she asks you to make a decision for her do it.

3. Don't show her that you think too much about it, you want to come off more detached right? Don't let her know you feel needy, better still don't feel needy.

4. Be ****y and funny about it, or bust her on it. Detachment again.

5. Yes, but not ALL the time. If you are visiting everyday don't stay too long. Be a little unpredictable otherwise she will be lead to believe she is the centre of your world.

Kaine