"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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need help before oneitis takes over

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hey guys, just looking for a bit of guidance really, as I feel as if the dreaded oneitis is gonna take over me real soon. 1 month ago, I came out of a 6yr LTR, it ended amicably, but it is over. Recently, I joined a dating site, and received a message from a chick in my area, same age too (29). Over the next 10 days we exchanged sexually-charged emails and text messages, with a view to meeting.-albeit in the near future. She went to a conference and said she was looking forward to 3 days of sexy chats. The first day was cool, with sexy texts and pictures shared, I made her ***! she said she was headed for a staff meal. She sent a pic saying she missed me. I replied. Then guys - nothing. No more texts. I did send 2 'you ok?' texts but 4 days of total silence have passed. Do I 'next' or pursue? Thanks guys.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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also, its worth mentioning that this chick is into the same music, films, hobbies etc as me, which is rare where I'm from. The majority of women are simple, narcisstic and drink too much. she also said she was really into me, and messaging her really helped me forget the emptiness I've been feeling lately due to work and my grandad passing away - she was a welcome distraction, and she just left me on a cliffhanger...
 
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You have already posted about this girl in another thread. Are you THAT desperate? Really??? To be this upset about and attatched to someone who you have never even met face to face? Bro I realize you are coming out of a LTR and therefore the first girl you find interesting seems like a summer breath of fresh air....but again, you have never even met this girl. Think about that for a second and what you would tell a friend if he told you the exact situation you are telling us.

MOVE ON. TONS of girls out there.
 
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wow she is using you. she is getting the real thing somewhere else.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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