"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hey guys.. I know this is pretty dumb, being ive closed deals many times before but I wanted to ask ur opinion. I have a girl, who is coming down in an hour to watch a movie. I want to try to mess around, etc etc.

what are some good ways to do this, we dont know each other that well- how can I make her feel real comfortable and then go in for a kiss or whatever. thanks guys.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thanks, but 1 question

havent learned KINO yet.. just know its playful touching. Any tips on where/when to touch etc. thanks guys, ive got 20 mins so tips quick would be best ;)
 

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Bro, if you're this helpless, you're clearly not going to be a DJ the first time you see a girl. It's good to aim for making the girl feel comfortable and sexual towards you, but you can't aim for perfection when you haven't even used kino on a girl. So pick your head up and believe in yourself. Deep down, you know what a girl wants to feel. She wants someone whos going to make her laugh, make her smile, and make her feel comfortable physically (KINO). When you sit/talk with her, always act like theres no barrier between you and her. Touch her plenty, but don't make any rash moves. With that said, women like men who take risks.
 

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as soon as you guys get comfy, bring up any topic and ask for her opinion.. something easy... and then totally disagree with her in a playful way n nudge her a little bit .. playfully hit her... but make it kind of a rub... not just a 'tap' ... n when she says 'ouch' or anything to that extent by playin around, rub that spot n say .. awww im sorry and give the sadddest face eveer... n then start laughin.... ask her if she wants anything... about 20 minutes into the flick.. make yourself look a little tired.. and sprawl out either on your bed or floor... or even the couch... preferably the couch so her body it close to yours...try to make it a little chilly in your crib.. grab a blanket... bring her close to you.... gently breath on her ear... then her neck... n then stop... like you're really into the movie... n then repeat... eventually she will be so turned on ... then go in for the kisss.. n then just go wit the flow....

sorry if this is real sloppy written but i had to type fast for ya.. good luck buddy... hope this helped any
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Put her in a headlock and then kiss her :rolleyes:

Why does a woman come to a man's house?? Think about it! She is not innocent - she wants you to make a move thus the reason she is going to your house!!!! Don't treat her as if she is an innocent virgin!! Spank her in the arse!!
 
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