need help approaching shy girl at college

[commodore]

hi all

i have returned after a few months of getting out of a painful situation and and hoping to end my streak of being a single loser for the last 20 years. (thats right, havent even been on a date, how sad).

anyway, here is the situtation, she is only in my lectures, none of my classes.

there are 2 lectures that go back to back.

and i know she always sits right at the front of the lecture hall so finding her wont be difficult.

there are 3 opportunities to talk to this girl,
1- at the start of the first lecture,
2- at the start of the 2nd lecture (which is the end of the first 1),
3- and of course, the end of the 2nd lecture, but we will be leaving then.

problem is, she always comes late. so option 1 is not viable.

i was just hoping to get your ideas as to when the best time to approach her was?

thing is, she already knows me, we had a nice chat a few months ago, but she is totally shy, so if i sit there waiting, she might get all shyed out, and sit somewhere else.

i want to catch her by surprise.
the logistics of this one is quite difficult for me, if anyone could please lend some advice to this loner, i will be most appreciative.

thanks

 

[IWillReturnsoon]

hi all

i have returned after a few months of getting out of a painful situation and and hoping to end my streak of being a single loser for the last 20 years. (thats right, havent even been on a date, how sad).

The past doesn't matter anymore. What matters is the future that you will create. Thats more important now.

anyway, here is the situtation, she is only in my lectures, none of my classes.

there are 2 lectures that go back to back.

and i know she always sits right at the front of the lecture hall so finding her wont be difficult.

there are 3 opportunities to talk to this girl,
1- at the start of the first lecture,
2- at the start of the 2nd lecture (which is the end of the first 1),
3- and of course, the end of the 2nd lecture, but we will be leaving then.

problem is, she always comes late. so option 1 is not viable.

i was just hoping to get your ideas as to when the best time to approach her was?

thing is, she already knows me, we had a nice chat a few months ago, but she is totally shy, so if i sit there waiting, she might get all shyed out, and sit somewhere else.

i want to catch her by surprise.
the logistics of this one is quite difficult for me, if anyone could please lend some advice to this loner, i will be most appreciative.

thanks

For one, don't call yourself a loser....as you want to get this part of your life handled. Secondly, i think the best time would be at the start of the second lecture or when she leaves. Believe me, when u go up to her...her reaction will shock you...she'll light up like anything! Since u've talked to her already...i wouldn't think it'd be too hard to talk to her. Eventhough she's shy, trust me...when she feels totally comfortable she won't shut up.haha. As when one is shy, they want to talk just are afraid to rather than being an introvert where sometimes u just dont' want to talk. Good Luck

 

[Monkey]

Just approach her when you guys are leaving, maybe comment on the class topic then say "well I gotta go now, whats your number?" - SHUT UP and check out her reaction, it'll tell you everything you need to know.

 

[MDgood]

If she always sits in the front of the lecture hall then she must be a real academic type. She's probably shy because she's never really gone out with somebody seriously. (Of course, she could also be the type who's shy until you're alone with her, and then she's begging you to fvck her. Yep, I ran into one of those before, but she was 25 and it goes to say she probably gained some experience in those years. But don't count on it with your chick.)

How about you show up early and sit next to her. Strike up a conversation with her. I suggest prepping yourself first. Write a list of a few things you could talk about. I suggest saying omething along the lines of hey, I don't get this concept, can you explain it to me... hey, you seem to have this down, can you help me study?" That sort of thing.