"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need Hair Advice - Owen Wilson Haircut

Tempest

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Hey guys. I recently began styling my hair down. I've grown out my hair longer now but the problem is that all of the products I have right now are required for my old haircut, which was spiking my hair.

This is the haircut I'm interested in:

OWEN WILSON

http://cdn-channels.netscape.com/gallery/i/o/o_wilson/53193675.jpg
http://www.friendsofjane.com/images/MovieStills/WeddingCrashers/OwenWilson_lg.jpg
http://purcine.free.fr/stars/w/wilson_owen/xl_wilson_owen-portrait.jpg

You get the idea!

OK... so I know there are tons of experts here.

What types of products do I need?

Also, if you could recommend products it'd be great too.

Thank you all! Much appreciated. =)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i personally have no idea but if you go to a salon and ask them they will be able to give you advice, tell them how you want it to look and see what they say
 

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C'mon... I know there is somebody here that can help me.
 

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I doubt a homosexual hair stylist would frequent a website on picking up women....

You might be able to find one at your local barbershop and what have you
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You gotta look at your hair and his. Do you have very thick hair? If not then start using conditioner and try to find a very light hair gel that will add body, also blow drying.

Then do you have wavy hair? I get really wavy hair when my hair gets long, it just depends on the person.

You'll probably need to trim it slightly to get that layered look he has. Definetely go to a stylist (not a barber or supercuts, etc) and bring a couple pictures. They'll tell you if it's possible for one. Grow your hair out first so it's easier to work with for them.
 

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you want something like pomade or forming cream/putty, it depends on how your hair naturally grows and how its cut, if it looks really close to the owen wilson hair without anything in it, pomade is light enough just to stick the strands together, if your hair is wiry, forming cream and putty are heavier but do the same things
 
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