Need guide to not falling under friend circle!!

[Canadien]

hello everybody, as it stands right now I am easily able to talk to my target girls, but there is this aspect of me that needs improvement..

How do I let the girl know that I'm interested in her? I asked "are you single" question yesterday, just as I read in one of the experimemnt here, but I am getting disaaproval for that approach, is this a suicide move..

So what else can I say other then "you look sexy"? in a formal way that would let her know that I am genuinly interested in her? I am one of those intellectual guys that have lot to say about almost anything, but with lack of experience in girls department I stay bit reserved, when it come to intimacy.

I am still working on KINO, and intimate part but there must be something in the place of "are you single" right?

Give me your approach style, and how you avoid falling into friend circle...

Or should I fall in friend circle, and then slowly dig my way through to the more intimate part? I want to participate in activities with girls, like playing badminton, or poker and at the same time stay connected by going to restaurants and anything that would make it more intimate experience.

Should I let the girl know of my intention in first interaction? or should I keep it subtle?

I am looking for intellectual girls, the smart one, do they fall for game? or should I just be myself?

 

[El Don]

Or should I fall in friend circle, and then slowly dig my way through to the more intimate part? I want to participate in activities with girls, like playing badminton, or poker and at the same time stay connected by going to restaurants and anything that would make it more intimate experience.

Should I let the girl know of my intention in first interaction? or should I keep it subtle?

I am looking for intellectual girls, the smart one, do they fall for game? or should I just be myself?

I may not be some master don juan on this site and don't give a lot of advice....actually I receive more but I can tell you from previous mistakes that you should not let yourself fall into her friends zone. It is nearly impossible to get out of. Within first meeting someone you like you should make your intentions known in your first interaction. Not through words but by actions....i.e. flirting and kino etc. If you play your cards right all girls fall for game. Some aren't stupid and can tell if you're running game on them if you aren't very experienced, so just work on it. I am not far from where you are now but I have been working on it slowly

 

[loco ass]

But what if you're already in the friendzone? What can be done? After knowing i had a chance with her and somehow blew it,can anything be done to salvage anything from the relationship-just friends..

 

[Vypros]

But what if you're already in the friendzone? What can be done? After knowing i had a chance with her and somehow blew it,can anything be done to salvage anything from the relationship-just friends..

Yes, there is only one way to escape the friendzone. ONE AND ONLY ONE WAY TO ESCAPE.

You drop her like a bad habit, put her out of your mind, and FORGET about her for at LEAST a year.

after not seeing her for a while, you get a "second chance" and you approach her as you would any other girl and ACT and let her KNOW that you want her.

 

[Improver21]

I totally agree with Vypros.

If you are already in the friendzone, forget her and WORK ON YOURSELF.
It really is out of your hands. Make the best of yourself so that next time you cross paths again she will see a change, and know what she missed out on.

That is, if by that time, you haven't already realised that someone else who is more appreciative of you is worthy of your attention.

 

[Canadien]

Yes, thats dandy and all

but, How do I stop the friend zone from the first interaction?
I am still learnning to be intimate, its hard as I've never had a ggirlfriends before, so what kind of questions, or comments would let the other person know of my intent, without coming out as a macho man?

Asking if they're single would actually get something done, as other person would actually think about your question, but if you never ask, then how do I come out as a somethimng more then a friend?

Is there any way to go in lover zone, without KINO? Living so long on the other side, and being in university, my language level is very high in terms of how I interact, should I tone down?

 

[loco ass]

so since i'm already in the friendzone,the least i can do is to totally heck her. I did it for quite some time and what i noticed was that she's the one who started our conversation- asking 'how's life' and all that stuff. Best of all,sometimes when she called me,her first phrase was 'hello friend!'. How should i deal with this? And i get to know that she mildly like someone? How should i react to this?