"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need Good Way To Reschedule Tonight's Date - Who here has the skills to help me?

Attractster

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Hi guys,

I have a date scheduled with a girl tonight, but the problem is I came down with a pretty disabling cold/fever, which would make it pretty hard for me to make things go the way I want them to considering I can barely even stand up.

Anyone have any ideas on C+F (or other) ways to reschedule this, so I don't have to say "Hey, I'm sick and too weak to meet you?"

I also don't want to seem flaky...

Thanks :)
Attractster
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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diplomatic_lies

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Just say you've got a cold and don't want to infect the city with a lethal disease which could make everyone into a zombie then you gotta fight them with a spade and find the secret virus making lab to get the antidote before fighting the mutant zombie with a flamethrower while fighting off hordes of the undead and eating clover leaves to improve your health next to a very hot policewoman.

Then set up a date for next week so you dont look like a flakey woman.
 

Nighthawk

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Flaking amplifies attraction. Works on the AFCs, right?
 
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