Need Good Advice on No Contact and Rebounds

[UberSuave]

We dated for only two months from july to august. we were tight, she blew me up alllll day, responded immmediately.
Fully into me.
I definetely acted like i was attatched.
But we were tight, then we go to school, (I KNOW) and I open up to her, she responds positively. We talk all the time, TOO MUCH.
I smothered her, cause she was a busy senior nursing student and I wasn't taking a busy semester, too muchhh free timeeee.

She breaks up. I keep reaching out. A week later she calls me crying frantically, wants me back.
Dumps me two days later, definetly second guessed herself idk. I def reached out too much again, didn't pace it and just say to myself "wtf im going to see her ineveitably don't rush it."

she becomes aloof, i panic, reach out, three weeks in a row, trying to talk.
def reinforced her decision.
anyways, i sent her something in the mail, a card explaining mediation, and an icy hot patch for her bad back.

find out this weekend shes in a rebound. i didn't reply to her when she thanked me.
then she started reaching out. and i've been completely ignoring her for four days.
she sent me an essay text today saying she wants it to be resolved, she wants to know if ill ever talk to her again and that she'll always be there (a friend)

I haven't responded.

I guess I am hoping for the rebound to fizzle out. only time will tell. but at this point, i don't think i really played no contact well.

she definetely had stronnggg emotions for me sexually, physcially

any advice on how to get the ball back into my court.
i feeel waaay better ignoring her, no what if thoughts

 

[UberSuave]

she wicked upset and "its like a weight bearing down on her" and its getting to her as she's trying to study for finals.
I just wanna make sure i do whatever i can to not reinforce this rebound

 

[apprenticedj]

Focus not on getting the ball back in your court. Instead focus on getting your BALLS in ANOTHER court.

Translation: spin plates and let this heffer slide.

 

[PlayHer Man]

This is what happens when you over-value a woman. Something 90% of modern men do (if not more). Its beta fag sh!t.

The bottom line is the woman should ALWAYS care more about the relationship than you. The second you care more than her is the second you're a faggot.

Once she sees that you're a faggot.. her vagina gradually dries up and her legs gradually close. Then she just gradually kills the relationship because she is too cowardly and self-centered to tell you to f*ck off in a blunt fashion (women like the fade away tactic. Its long and cruel.. but its great for their egos ). Plus she wants you as a "friend" so you can keep giving her therapy, shopping with her and doing her favors while she f*cks other men before your eyes. Good times. :yes:

Stop being a sucker. Not just with her, but in general. Spin plates at all times.

 

[SuperSuave]

This is what happens when you over-value a woman. Something 90% of modern men do (if not more). Its beta fag sh!t.

The bottom line is the woman should ALWAYS care more about the relationship than you. The second you care more than her is the second you're a faggot.

Once she sees that you're a faggot.. her vagina gradually dries up and her legs gradually close. Then she just gradually kills the relationship because she is too cowardly and self-centered to tell you to f*ck off in a blunt fashion (women like the fade away tactic. Its long and cruel.. but its great for their egos ). Plus she wants you as a "friend" so you can keep giving her therapy, shopping with her and doing her favors while she f*cks other men before your eyes. Good times. :yes:

Stop being a sucker. Not just with her, but in general. Spin plates at all times.

Alright. But, it was my fault, cause I did act like a chode. What if it's actually a good thing if I just stop being needy, take care of my own business, and go back to that alpha who bagged her at the gym by going right up to her and pushing her so and saying "Sorry, I needed to get to the leg press."

How the hell do you reconcile if they do come back. Cause it might be an option for me.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Alright. But, it was my fault, cause I did act like a chode. What if it's actually a good thing if I just stop being needy, take care of my own business, and go back to that alpha who bagged her at the gym by going right up to her and pushing her so and saying "Sorry, I needed to get to the leg press."

How the hell do you reconcile if they do come back. Cause it might be an option for me.

What is she b!tch the golden vagina or something? Making her so important is the very reason she lost interest in the first place!

Once a woman sees you as a faggot, that's how she sees you for life. Its not reversible. Any attempt to reverse it makes you a bigger faggot. You should be spinning plates and having a "your loss" attitude. Have some dignity.

If you can't NEXT a girl who rejects you.. then you have a serious problem. Its like a restaurant goes out of business and you wait outside for it to open up again because you LOVE the food so much. What part of OUT OF BUSINESS did you miss? :crackup: :crackup:

 

[VladPatton]

You gotta let it go, man. When a girl looses her interest in you there's no need for you to stick around. All you'll be doing is extending your pain. Look how she is toying with you with on again off again crap. Go ghost and don't look back, you'll thank yourself in a few months.

 

[SuperSuave]

She got a package last friday from me with a get well card, chocolate and icy hot for her bad back. I decided I was going to try no contact and she's becoming frantic at this point and it's killing her.
IDK if this is actually making her miss me or builidng attraction back lol cause she thinks I'm not okay cause I didn't acknowledge her thank you.
But now it's five days in and she's freaking out it's even messing with her school work lol

 

[mikey2012]

She got a package last friday from me with a get well card, chocolate and icy hot for her bad back. I decided I was going to try no contact and she's becoming frantic at this point and it's killing her.
IDK if this is actually making her miss me or builidng attraction back lol cause she thinks I'm not okay cause I didn't acknowledge her thank you.
But now it's five days in and she's freaking out it's even messing with her school work lol

Dude you are AFC fag. She going dump you sooner or later