Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need fvck buddy ideas....

cave dweller

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Hey,

I have had a fvck buddy for the last 5 months....

All I give her is some d1ck and a Whopper Jr. once in awhile.

The problem is she cut me off, because, she wants more. ie. she wants to start dating.......

She shut me off two weeks ago....

So, any ideas on how to manage a FB situation?

cave dweller
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cave dweller

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FB only.......

Hey,

You maybe right.......

Good point.

I do not want her as a GF--- only as a fvck buddy.....

cave dweller
 

Kaine

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In your head
She's gotten emotionally attached to you

She's either doing a pull on you by playing hard to get
or
she's found enough strength to end it (situational)

Either way you are laid back

Let her reinitiate contact


Kaine
 
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