"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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kingy

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Hey guys,

I've decided to do a new video blog as well as a written one, I'm a very visual person and I'd imagine a lot of others are too so hopefully it should provide value.

I've just got the video edited, please let me know whether the information is useful, length of the video is okay and whether you actually learn anything from it.

Please dont be rude but critical is okay.

There is some information on how having a loose structure in pu is important and pain bodies and how to remove, then went out and did a couple of approaches then the camera crews battery ran out lol

This is not live yet, not on the blog, still a preliminary copy and only been posted on this forum, could you find this format of information useful?

Check it out here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2gZZmFr2M2g

Peace and Love,

Kingy
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Desdinova

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The worst thing I notice in a lot of home-brew videos isn't the video effects themselves, nor the actual camera work, but the audio mix. The music is borderline competing with your speech - which is your actual content. Lower the volume of the music for either the entire video, or just when you're speaking. A compressor on the spoken audio will also work wonders.
 

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good quality and good setting and you seem to present yourself well. I can't hear what is actually being said since i'm working at the library. some parts of the video you're putting yourself in bad positions for lighting and you can't see your face too well(interview parts).
 

kingy

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thanks for the feedback,

it was actually filmed on proper television equipment. the title is **** i think and will get re-done and music is a bit crappy. its just for video blog though so hopefully if u can understand it then its worth it.

will get better with more practice at getting the information in my head onto a camera which gives no feedback.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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