"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fortunate_Juan

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Here's the situation. A cute girl I noticed works at block buster. I started out jus sorta doin my normal stuff, working on getting over my fear of girls. She laughed at a couple of my jokes. I had seen her at some dances before, (especially before going here and getting some confidence) So I said "i think i've seen you around" (original i know...) she said yea i've seen you too. So we talked a lil bit, found out where she graduated from. I told her my name, it turns out I trained her like 2 years ago at another job, she had a bf and i had a gf at the time. But she recognized me even with my shaved head. Anyways. To get to the question. The next time I see her at BB should I ask her for her # or no.. I was considering it since I don't know where I'll see her again, but prob is it's sorta weak to do when she's at work... or is it? thoughts please :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lost In Translation

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WHEN YOU WERE ON A ROLL WHY THE >>>>> DIDNT YOU ASK FOR HER NUMBER ?

SHE WOULD HAVE GIVEN IT TO YOU

do it :)

some tips if you draw a mental blank to keep the mood going :

timing so no customers interrupt you

hire some movies so you look legit and she doesn't think too much of it

where i live its 3 new releases for $10

so if you draw a blank while you running game you can ask her about the movie

has she seen it

did she like it

would she recommend it

THIS IS ONLY FILLER TO BE USED IF YOU IN A JAM TO KEEP IT FLOWING

maintain eye contact

keep it ****y and funny

stay relaxed like its no big deal ( you do it all the time you are a pro )

whatever you use that normally worked last time and had her laughing ( same comedy style )

*NOTE*

i think you already did all this and you could have asked for her number before and she would have given it to you

remember what Robert DeNiro said in RONIN

"whenever there is any doubt there is no doubt"

p.s worst that can happen is she can say no

once you understand it doesn't mean the end of the world

infact it doesn't mean a thing

you will become a sarge machine

Quote: maddman75
“ I am the prize. I like what I see so far, so I'll give her an opportunity to show me that she's worth my time and effort. If she rejects me, she's a fool. I'll just go find the next lucky chick and let her have what this chick is throwing away. “


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote : Derek Flint
“I'd have that azz bouncing up and down like a low-rider in a Dr. Dre music video.”
 

Fortunate_Juan

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thanks

Yea, she'll still give me her #, I can see it in her eyes, jus didnt know if mackin on her at work was appropriate. Thanks.
 

Marlimus

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first off, you can mack just about anywhere. Secondly, when you ask for her number, be bold, don't say "Can I call you?" you'll sound like a wimp. Ask as though you expect to receive
 
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