"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need Don Juan Perspective- Girlfriends And Stress-need Advice Badly

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DJ,
If your stressed or underpressure for some reason, is it bad for your girl to be around you. I'm under alot of stress right now and my girl feels like I'm not being myself and I'm not attentive like I normally am. My question is when I'm in this stressful state, should I avoid my girl? I have a tendency to get consumed by certain things like presentations or projects regarding work. I can't think about anything else....I think its anxiety...
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My question is when I'm in this stressful state, should I avoid my girl?

Thanks.....
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You can aviod her if you want! I do the same thing when I am stressed. Like not paying her attention, qucik tempered, etc. What I do now I have sex with her and when were cuddling afterwards I open up and tell her what's on my mind. She always understands.


Try it?
 
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Originally posted by Analysis
DJ,
If your stressed or underpressure for some reason, is it bad for your girl to be around you. I'm under alot of stress right now and my girl feels like I'm not being myself and I'm not attentive like I normally am. My question is when I'm in this stressful state, should I avoid my girl? I have a tendency to get consumed by certain things like presentations or projects regarding work. I can't think about anything else....I think its anxiety...
Again.....
My question is when I'm in this stressful state, should I avoid my girl?

Thanks.....
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Erm, shouldn't your girl want to do all she can to make you feel better?
 
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Well I would imagine your girlfriend should be there for you when you're down...
 
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Women by natural design are comforters and consolers - it is when a man is under stress that a woman's company is most needed and wanted - as long as she is a a hekper and not a hinderance to your task at hand!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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