"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is the context, but if you'd like to skip it all here's a brief summary:
I went to the Shakespeare Festial and peacocked like it was 1599.
Enchanted a group of young ladies and got some serious ****y funny and kino going on with the 8.5 among them.
Got her myspace (she added me next day top 8 number 1 space)
Found out from her myspace she has a long-term bf.

Shakespeare Festival= battleground of confidence, acting, and passion. My game has never been better. I use crazy kino and confidence, but I have no canned material/ideas on getting the phone number. This hurt me later in the day.

I decided to put on even more flaunty Shakespearean costume rather than taking any off (Peacocking in the natural habitat) when I was done acting. I directed my attack straight at a pack of four ladies hanging out outside. Charging in wielding comedy in one hand and kino in the other, the confidence and power made me feel larger than life... and I WAS! So I zeroed in on two girls and the 8.5 got really into me. I initiated rapport and she wanted to take me home with her, and to be a challenge I said she had to try harder than that.

So we all went into the theatre and watched more skits. She sat really close to me so I went crazy kino style on her. She started moving her leg up and down during one scene so I started doing the same rubbing against her moving leg with mine suggesting that we were "running onto the stage" to steal this one girl's hat. My game went slightly downhill after that as my new wingman (who has no loyalty to me) tried to make a steal. I blocked him, but demoted my want of getting her number to getting her myspace as he did (quick and with prowess I must add, my lackey proved to be a stronger player than I, but I had the advantage of kino as I sat next to her and he didnt). It's a shame I didn't drive myself, because if my parents didn't come, I knew where this night was going

Nonetheless, I went home and waited for her to add me. She immediately made me her #1 spot in her top 8 while her bf is now 6 on there. This happened today, and I really should have made her wait, as I am now making her wait for my response to her message:

HI!
we met @ Shakespear ITS ME, (name)
how r u?
i really like thought u were hilarious so i had to track u down! lol
how've ya been?

well i'm boring so i really don't have ne thing to say. lol
xoxoxxx
(name)

Now I was planning to make it sound like I dispised boring people and she'd have to prove herself wrong by meeting me somewhere, but then I looked over her myspace and found:
SHE HAS A STEADY BF (Nerdy and pretty, but steady)

I am now very confused as I don't want to be a too much of a heartbreaker. DJ's any pointers?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just have fun with her -- as an acquaintance -- and "game" others. If she wants to replace her "leading man" with you, she won't make it too difficult. If she doesn't, nothing you can do will be able to make her, but there's lots you can do (or perhaps I should say overdo) to make yourself look a right idiot. In the mean time, there must be lots of other hot & interesting gals at a Shakespeare festival.
 

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Truedat. I guess I just chose the wrong one to zero in on. Next time, I will get more numbers/myspaces and charm more ladies with my peacockiness!! Thanks. Still not sure how to respond, but tsall good. I'll be back in the morning.
 

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Yup, 'tsall good. Sarge on... :up:
 

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Aight I'm back. She lives 200 miles away so I'm guessing she drove much longer than I to get there LOL. Glad I used mapquest.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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