"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is the context, but if you'd like to skip it all here's a brief summary:
I went to the Shakespeare Festial and peacocked like it was 1599.
Enchanted a group of young ladies and got some serious ****y funny and kino going on with the 8.5 among them.
Got her myspace (she added me next day top 8 number 1 space)
Found out from her myspace she has a long-term bf.

Shakespeare Festival= battleground of confidence, acting, and passion. My game has never been better. I use crazy kino and confidence, but I have no canned material/ideas on getting the phone number. This hurt me later in the day.

I decided to put on even more flaunty Shakespearean costume rather than taking any off (Peacocking in the natural habitat) when I was done acting. I directed my attack straight at a pack of four ladies hanging out outside. Charging in wielding comedy in one hand and kino in the other, the confidence and power made me feel larger than life... and I WAS! So I zeroed in on two girls and the 8.5 got really into me. I initiated rapport and she wanted to take me home with her, and to be a challenge I said she had to try harder than that.

So we all went into the theatre and watched more skits. She sat really close to me so I went crazy kino style on her. She started moving her leg up and down during one scene so I started doing the same rubbing against her moving leg with mine suggesting that we were "running onto the stage" to steal this one girl's hat. My game went slightly downhill after that as my new wingman (who has no loyalty to me) tried to make a steal. I blocked him, but demoted my want of getting her number to getting her myspace as he did (quick and with prowess I must add, my lackey proved to be a stronger player than I, but I had the advantage of kino as I sat next to her and he didnt). It's a shame I didn't drive myself, because if my parents didn't come, I knew where this night was going

Nonetheless, I went home and waited for her to add me. She immediately made me her #1 spot in her top 8 while her bf is now 6 on there. This happened today, and I really should have made her wait, as I am now making her wait for my response to her message:

HI!
we met @ Shakespear ITS ME, (name)
how r u?
i really like thought u were hilarious so i had to track u down! lol
how've ya been?

well i'm boring so i really don't have ne thing to say. lol
xoxoxxx
(name)

Now I was planning to make it sound like I dispised boring people and she'd have to prove herself wrong by meeting me somewhere, but then I looked over her myspace and found:
SHE HAS A STEADY BF (Nerdy and pretty, but steady)

I am now very confused as I don't want to be a too much of a heartbreaker. DJ's any pointers?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just have fun with her -- as an acquaintance -- and "game" others. If she wants to replace her "leading man" with you, she won't make it too difficult. If she doesn't, nothing you can do will be able to make her, but there's lots you can do (or perhaps I should say overdo) to make yourself look a right idiot. In the mean time, there must be lots of other hot & interesting gals at a Shakespeare festival.
 

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Truedat. I guess I just chose the wrong one to zero in on. Next time, I will get more numbers/myspaces and charm more ladies with my peacockiness!! Thanks. Still not sure how to respond, but tsall good. I'll be back in the morning.
 

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Yup, 'tsall good. Sarge on... :up:
 

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Aight I'm back. She lives 200 miles away so I'm guessing she drove much longer than I to get there LOL. Glad I used mapquest.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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