NEED date idea quickk please... planning to set up a date tomorrow afternoon

[The_Mole]

i live in an apt near college
i have no car
i live downtown san jose california

she works at a theatre, so movie date is out


what can i do with her?


suggestions please!


throught my dorm years, i never went on a date cuz no girl was that fine

but this girl is too good to pass

i want to take this girl out cuz she looks jessica alba

 

[Dee-Zy]

Action date!

San Jose is hot enough for you to go hit the court, or go rollerblade, mini golf - rock climbin... pool, ect.

another alternative is coffee date but I dissagree with that as a first date.

 

[The_Mole]

do u recoomend tennis?

 

[Dee-Zy]

HELL YEAH!!!

That's even better then anything I listed ... except maybe rollerblade but that's a matter of taste.

Go with Tennis for sure!


hands down.

 

[The_Mole]

the thing is, i dont have tennis racket or roller plades


she seemed pretty interested in skateboarding though and at school, she wanted to try to ride it so i held her hips

 

[Dee-Zy]

Tennis Raquets are easy to find. There are places where you can rent them ... I'd rent raquets over rollerblades anyday though.

don't do the skate thing though. Not too good for a date.

love handles??? You into the chunky girls huh?




Oh and, how can you be in Cali and NOT rollerblade? I'm stunned.

I'm in Canada and I rb. If I was in Cali I'd rb all the fukkin time!!!

 

[The_Mole]

shes a jessica alba look alike

she a mocha skinned, private schooled, volleyball team, atheltic girl with a flat stomach and nice titttttitttt so shes not chunky

and did i tell u i was white-washed CHINESE probably because i haveround american white guy eyes instead of chinky eyes???

its always white, filipino and latin girls that liked me in high school and i could never get asian chicks

so i'm gonna stick with white or latin for now




in CA, skateboarding and scootering is in now and only gays rollerblade especially in san fran, no offense



now i just need to find or borrow my friends tennis rackets and find an outdoor tennis court


oh yeah, how long should this date be?

 

[The_Mole]

double post

 

[Dee-Zy]

Originally posted by The_Mole
shes a jessica alba look alike

she a mocha skinned, private schooled, volleyball team, atheltic girl with a flat stomach and nice titttttitttt so shes not chunky

and did i tell u i was white-washed CHINESE with round american eyes instead of chinky eyes???

its always white, filipino and latin girls that liked me in high school and i could never get asian chicks

so i'm gonna stick with white or latin for now




in CA, skateboarding and scootering is in now and only gays rollerblade especially in san fran, no offense



now i just need to find or borrow my friends tennis rackets and find an outdoor tennis court


oh yeah, how long should this date be?

u talkin as if bein azn is a bad thing.

<---- Viet.

fukk u
lol

 

[becker]

Ok, if she looks like Jessica Alba, don't let her get away, or else I'll be there catching the rebound

 

[high nrg]

Hey, i live in los gatos.

Depending on whats there now, go to the art museum. A few months ago there was a Surf Art exhibit that was pretty cool.

There's also the rep (the big blue building). They might have a cool play in right now.

You've got the tech museum too.

Check out Christmas in hte park if you want.

I'm just throwin out ideas here. They might sound kinda childish, but o well.

 

[Dee-Zy]

Originally posted by high nrg
Hey, i live in los gatos.

Depending on whats there now, go to the art museum. A few months ago there was a Surf Art exhibit that was pretty cool.

There's also the rep (the big blue building). They might have a cool play in right now.

You've got the tech museum too.

Check out Christmas in hte park if you want.

I'm just throwin out ideas here. They might sound kinda childish, but o well.

Those aren't bad ideas, but I would mos def not do that on the first date. Especially since u described how athletic she is.

 

[The_Mole]

when i get her picture, i'll show u guys privately so her picture doesnt get everywhere


yeah, i cant imagine a walk in the park for a first date anyways


how long should my action date be and how do i set up an action date?


do i say: "u wanna go to christmas in the park?" or other fluff talk like "i see its nice over there, want to go?"

i think this sounds to friend-like

i dont know how to set up a date as a DATE and not a friendly gathering.

help!

 

[The_Mole]

oh yeah, and she has a best friend who isnt good looking at all and am friends with her now.

i probably know her more than jessica alba look alike and i have no problem asking this girl out because its a friend thing almost
"u wanna go to the mall?" etc.

would it be good idea to bring her along for the date??

and answer my questions about how long the date and how i should say it!!!

 

[becker]

Go alone with Alba if you can. If you bring the friend, they'll end up talking to each other the whole time and leave you on the side looking like some 3rd wheel.

 

[The_Mole]

lol, the 3rd wheel thing happened to me once


how should i approach her with date on phone?

do i say: "u wanna go to christmas in the park?" or other fluff talk like "i see its nice over there, want to go?"

i think this sounds to friend-like

i dont know how to set up a date as a DATE and not a meeting as friends.


length of date?

sorry for spam

 

[D4H]

wth, when i ask for date ideas i get 2 responses. Guess ill just bump constantly.
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=44199

 

[becker]

Mole,

You're thinking too hard. Just say "let's go to [wherever]". Keep it simple and assertive. The delivery is probably more important that what you actually say, as long as it's along the lines of you and her going out alone together.

Length of time on the date?? Geez, too much analysis. I don't even think about that stuff. Just go and however much time it takes, that's how long it will be. What are you going to do, hold a stopwatch in your pocket so that when it rings, you drive her home?

Good luck, and if it doesn't work out, give me her number j/k

 

[The_Mole]

so it doesnt have to seem like i'm asking her out for a date, but just asking her out???


i couldnt figure any ideas so i might take her to the local candy or ice cream store

is this good idea for first date? and wont it be too short?

or i'll just go to the theatre she works at and watch a free movie. hahaaha

 

[MoMurda]

Originally posted by Dee-Zy
HELL YEAH!!!

That's even better then anything I listed ... except maybe rollerblade but that's a matter of taste.

Go with Tennis for sure!


hands down.

wait till night and go naked rollerblading, alot of chic LOVE to be naked!