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Hey, this is my first post - but I've been lurking for awhile, so hello - but on with the thread.
I am a 23 years old working college student, and as are far as appearances are concerned, I am above average, I think - forgive the lack of humility, but these threads need honest details.
I meet a lot of girls, I've dated a lot of girls (but usually ending in disappointment). Recently I have been working on my skills on approaching and what not. The past few weeks I have been on a high of sorts, because it seemed that as long as I was trying, I would get atleast a positive response from whatever girl I was approaching/flirting..etc.
To make a long story short, a very cool girl, probaly a 7.5 or so, worked at a restaurant I tend to go to on my lunch breaks. I would have never considered even getting her digits, but she went waaaaay out of her way to get to know me. Well, I actually lost her number. It happens. Luckily, she came in to my place of buisness, to visit me and we hung out for a good 30 minutes - and I made sure we exchanged numbers. Once again, she was sending allll the signals of being interested, I mean it was kinda suprising.
Well, I had some things to do at the school we both attend, and I decided to call her up to see if she wanted to tag along. This is about 3 days or so after she visited?
Anyways, I call her and ask her whats up, and she says, "Me and my boyfriend are just hanging out."
No worries, I played it cool, but it still sucked. My question: Was she just being an attention ***** and wanting me as a friend?
As of late it seems all the girls my age, who are worth the trouble, are taken. I usually have a rule, if a girl has a bf/fiance/husband, she is off limits - but I'm starting to question whether they are really that committed in the first place.
So what am I doing wrong? I am sure there is a whole list of things, but any specifics??
I am a 23 years old working college student, and as are far as appearances are concerned, I am above average, I think - forgive the lack of humility, but these threads need honest details.
I meet a lot of girls, I've dated a lot of girls (but usually ending in disappointment). Recently I have been working on my skills on approaching and what not. The past few weeks I have been on a high of sorts, because it seemed that as long as I was trying, I would get atleast a positive response from whatever girl I was approaching/flirting..etc.
To make a long story short, a very cool girl, probaly a 7.5 or so, worked at a restaurant I tend to go to on my lunch breaks. I would have never considered even getting her digits, but she went waaaaay out of her way to get to know me. Well, I actually lost her number. It happens. Luckily, she came in to my place of buisness, to visit me and we hung out for a good 30 minutes - and I made sure we exchanged numbers. Once again, she was sending allll the signals of being interested, I mean it was kinda suprising.
Well, I had some things to do at the school we both attend, and I decided to call her up to see if she wanted to tag along. This is about 3 days or so after she visited?
Anyways, I call her and ask her whats up, and she says, "Me and my boyfriend are just hanging out."
No worries, I played it cool, but it still sucked. My question: Was she just being an attention ***** and wanting me as a friend?
As of late it seems all the girls my age, who are worth the trouble, are taken. I usually have a rule, if a girl has a bf/fiance/husband, she is off limits - but I'm starting to question whether they are really that committed in the first place.
So what am I doing wrong? I am sure there is a whole list of things, but any specifics??