Need confirmation that I'm pretty much screwed here

[wysiwyg6000]

Brief story: contacted this chick on Match.com, hit it off, asked her out after a week and got brushed off (whatever), helped her out big time and I was back in her good graces, got her number, called several days later and talked for a good half hour, kinda avoided her online for a few days (made it look like I was busy) then called her today...left a message on voicemail and she hasnt gotten back to me 5 hours later now (and I gave my number in the voicemail so there's no excuse). what went wrong here? I know I had this chick baited, I know for a fact...you can feel it when you click with someone. Am I pretty much screwed here? She hasn't IMd me either, and I dont' expect her to either unfortunately

 

[CaptainObvious#1]

Originally posted by wysiwyg6000
got brushed off (whatever), helped her out big time and I was back in her good graces

Am I the only one who see's something wrong with this?

Dude, she brushed you off and then you go and help her. What the!?
Do you have a one-itis with someone you haven't even met yet? Come on man. Go out or something. Lots of fine women out in the real world. Leave online dating services for the old guys (assuming you're not old, and if you are you should know better then to help someone out after they dog you).

 

[echo1212]

I concurr and confirm that the confirmation you are looking for is confirmed.

 

[Kodiac]

what went wrong here?

Have you met her ?
You helped her out big time ?
Talked for half an hour on the phone ?
Left a msg on voicemail ?
You thought u 'had her' baited ?
Your waiting for her to IM you ?

Your not screwed, or should i say...your not going to get screwed by this one.

And for Internet 'hunnies' wysiwyg rule doesn't always apply.

I concurr.
NEXT

 

[McKindley]

Don't leave messages. That puts the ball in her court.

I don't know for a fact if you're screwed, but I say lay off of her. Don't think about her too much. Don't call her (or at least not for awhile.) You helped her out after she dogged you. That's kinda ****ty. Be busy for the next little while. If she calls, good for you. If not, next her. She put you through enough crap to where you shouldn't care too much anymore.

 

[Starman]

This is one of the most pathetic scenario's Ive read on here.

First of all you are counting the hours in while waiting for her to call you back.

#2 in YOUR mind, you made a GREAT connection!!!

GET OUT OF YOUR FANTASY WORLD!!! who the hell makes a DYNAMIC CONNECTION in a 30 min conversation?

and why are you contradicting yourself?? First you say YOu KNOW you have her baited..but then you say you dont expect her to IM or CALL you.

I think you have 2 vvoices going on in your head , The RATIONAL side, that is telling you, Get fvckin REAL!!!!! This relationship is based on cardboard and bandaids!!

and your Emotional/Wishful thinking side creating fantasy scenarios of endless love and coyish game playing

Guess which side you should listen to???

 

[AMF]

Originally posted by wysiwyg6000
Need confirmation that I'm pretty much screwed here

Youre screwed.

 

[Knicknack]

posts like this are getting old.

 

[McKindley]

I second the motion put forth by Knicknack.

About a week ago I put up a post satirizing posts like these. It was locked within a few hours. (search for "So I think this girl might like me. . ., under my name)