"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CoRVeTTe6699

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hey whats up? tonight ill be hanging out with a hot girl from college. she asked me to hang out and calls me a lot. i commute to college and do not have a dorm there. she dorms there. on the phone, and several other times, she stated she has her dorm to herself since her roomates left. im assuming she wants to get wild with me but heres where my problem arrises.

i dont want to bring a condom cuz i dont want her to find it- shell think im looking to have sex with her... her suggestions about her being alone in the dorm couldve not meant for me to fcuk her.. idk..

and if she gives me a bj, i have to eat her out... my college has a VERY high STD rate and it is known for it..if i do eat her out, am i going to get aids? do u guys do things like this to girls uve just met? plz help me.. im afraid of getting hiv

btw, ive never had sex before and tonight be my lucky night...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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evolvingnerd

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who cares if she finds the condom?
she wants to, and you want to
that was the whole idea behind her bringing up the fact that she has the dorm room to herself - der
 

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if she finds it just be like,"wow...you're a little forward aren't you? we haven't even gotten to foreplay yet....besides, i still don't know if you can even kiss"

think about it like this...would you rather be caught with a condom, or caught with your pants down without one? hell, i carry 2 in my truck, one in my wallet and 2 in my booksack for study dates

what happens if she gets your pants off then asks if you brought one...what are you going to say? "oh im sorry...i've never had sex before so i didn't think i needed to bring any.

she wants you dude, stop thinking about it and go take what you want! if you want to fu$k her, do it. if you don't want to risk getting an STD then dont do it. whatever your reasoning, just be sure that you can back it up.
 

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If she's a chick in college...she'll have a condom in her room. Honestly, she will.
 

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dont be a dumba$$, you can't get HIV from eating someone out. Didn't u learn anything in sex education class in high school ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Bartender

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
dont be a dumba$$, you can't get HIV from eating someone out. Didn't u learn anything in sex education class in high school ?
I hope you're kidding
 

Ice Cold

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
dont be a dumba$$, you can't get HIV from eating someone out. Didn't u learn anything in sex education class in high school ?
You're the dumbass here.

You WILL get something from eating someone out.
 

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
dont be a dumba$$, you can't get HIV from eating someone out. Didn't u learn anything in sex education class in high school ?
you might wonna get tested for oral herpes, a new disease makes its way through the 21st century. if ou give yourself head you migh get it at both ends. wouldnt that be a cool experiment?
 

Wiesman44

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Well man, seeing as though your talking out of your a$$, i suggest u shut up. I had sex with an HIV + girl, and i got tested 3 times at 3 different sites. There has NEVER been a case of a guy getting HIV from eating a girl out through the entire 20 years + the virus has been around. Im not saying u cant get std's, i'm saying eat the ***** as much as u want and you won't get HIV
 
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