Need assist again. In coffee shop right now!

[Poonani Maker]

Ok, I took care of some business this morning on my day off and decided to have lunch at this coffee shop I've never been to before downtown. So I'm outside (it's a little chilly in short sleeves) eating and this young (23?) black-haired gal sits down at the small table in front of me, then tells me to watch her stuff (coffee, books) while she goes and gets her coat out of her car. I say, "Sure." So we're sitting there and I'm getting too cold so I move to the inside (also to recharge my laptop) and about 10 minutes later she comes in and sets on the couch next to me after saying, "You got a little to cold out there didn't you?" while passing by me, to which I said, "Yeah, I did." I'd say she's an HB8, but could fall to 7 if I checked her out more.

Anyway, just as I'm writting this, I missed another opportunity to get a number because she's now getting up and leaving. She had a nice wavy hair style. She was probably thinking why I didn't speak to her more (afterall she approached me Twice within 15 minutes). I'm just not in the mood and I'm a moron for not trying to get her number for a later time when I might be in the mood for trying to get her to let me get into her pants. I guess it was just bad timing on her part. I feel sorry for her because she just walked by outside for me to see her again (nice ass). God I feel so sorry for that lonely jet-black-haired gal. **** I should have said something to make her FEEL good (it's cloudy outside), but I really need rest and I'm not in the mood (I'm also waiting on an important call).

I guess that I don't need anymore help now. I know I'm a fool for not pushing myself to set up, pay attention, and be open when opportunity knocks. I should be given several lashes for not taking action and more or less being an ass to her by completely shutting her out, the way a woman would shut me out if I was trying to make conversation with her.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Another missed opportunity by not being in the moment (and taking action on it).

 

[KarmaSutra]

Every trained DJ is always ready to fire at a moments notice.

Practice brother. And keep your eyes open all the time.

 

[IKO69]

Like the others posters said. But it's OK, because you know to be ready next time the same situation comes up, so you didn't totally lose!

 

[Agent Zero]

I used to be like that. I've gotten a lot better. Just say something. The reaction is positive almost every time and rapport will come naturally if it is meant to be.