Ok ....about 2 weeks ago I met an HB at the store where I work, and I felt some chemistry there, and I gave her my work card, and told her to stop in and see me anytime....I work right down the street from her, when I walked by she would wave first to me...the other day I stopped in and told her I just told her that I had a couple of tickets to a really happenin concert and thought she might be interested, and she seemed real interested so I gave her my cell number, but I didn't give her mine....and told her to call yesterday, I haven't heard back yet, but I would like to call her at work and ask her for her number, so I could call her later and maybe officially ask her out for the concert....should I do this? Or should I wait for her to call me about this?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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- Thread starter dax
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Don't call her at work. Wait until you see her in person again.
Agreed. Don't try and "research" her phone number and call her at work. Let her call you or talk to her the next time you see her in person. Otherwise you'll come off like creapy stalker guy.
Good lesson for you - get her number and call her next time and you won't be in this situation.
Good lesson for you - get her number and call her next time and you won't be in this situation.