Ok ....about 2 weeks ago I met an HB at the store where I work, and I felt some chemistry there, and I gave her my work card, and told her to stop in and see me anytime....I work right down the street from her, when I walked by she would wave first to me...the other day I stopped in and told her I just told her that I had a couple of tickets to a really happenin concert and thought she might be interested, and she seemed real interested so I gave her my cell number, but I didn't give her mine....and told her to call yesterday, I haven't heard back yet, but I would like to call her at work and ask her for her number, so I could call her later and maybe officially ask her out for the concert....should I do this? Or should I wait for her to call me about this?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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- Thread starter dax
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Don't call her at work. Wait until you see her in person again.
Agreed. Don't try and "research" her phone number and call her at work. Let her call you or talk to her the next time you see her in person. Otherwise you'll come off like creapy stalker guy.
Good lesson for you - get her number and call her next time and you won't be in this situation.
Good lesson for you - get her number and call her next time and you won't be in this situation.