"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Need an opinion

channingtatum

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2013
Messages
79
Reaction score
32
Met a girl off match about 4 years ago. She's my type - latina, sexy, cool girl. Went on a few dates and things seemed to go pretty well. She started becoming flaky after that, never making it to a 3rd date. I wasn't as skilled as I was back then, so I asked her straight out what the deal is and she said "oh, I didn't think you were that into me". Obviously lie. We didn't talk for awhile but I would randomly write text her, pitch a date, she'd agree to it, then flake. I haven't talked to her in about 2 years and saw she randomly commented on something on FB, so I texted her asking how she was doing, etc. She mentioned getting out of a 2 yr relationship just a month ago. Said "f*ck it" and pitched a date, she was all about it and she actually came through and we went on the date. Had a great time, she threw out tons of hints she was interested in seeing me more. After the date she said thank you had a great time, I said yea, lets do it again sometime. She replied that she'd like that. Not sure where to take it from here. I'm assuming I'm Mr. Rebound and I'm cool with that, I'd just love to bang her. Do I play it slow or just go in real quick for the kill while it's hot?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

sodbuster

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2008
Messages
2,560
Reaction score
373
Age
67
Location
South Dakota
IF you're in for the sex.... go now. I've had s@x with 2 women who DIVORCED their husbands, but were still upset that the guy remarried or knocked up another girl. They made some stupid excuse to come over, or have me come over and we ended up knocking boots..... Date her, see if you can make your move, but when she finds out about her ex and another woman.... you are in
 
Top