Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need an idea on date

victor22

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I am going on a date with this girl, she told me she will be interested in meeting up for Coffee or Bowling?

I need some tips on later how to take her home?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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foomee

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for coffee there isn't much of a need to take her home... that seems like a day date. go with the bowling, probably cosmic bowling. plan it somewhere away from her house and closer to your's. afterwards just play the "oh i want to show you something" card and then make your move
 

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Hey dude

do you have any idea so that she can take me home, Right now i am visiting my friend and i cannot take her home
 

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Use some ****y humour on her about where she may live, etc. Tease her! When she says, "I actually live in a nice place!".. ask her to prove it! After reading caned lines and ideas, you should be able to start developing your own.

Quick example from the top of my head. Let's just say this girl has a dog and she talks about it a lot. When she brings it up, say you'd love to see it tonight and that you don't have too much time after bowling, but you could probably squeeze some time. Than, build some rapport, have some more good conversation, spice things up... and she won't even bother bringing up the fact that you said you had plans after bowling because she won't want you to leave! Get the idea?
 

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This method works for me, more than 50% of the time.

I like to take my girl to the lounge, it has comfortable chair that I can do some kino. Let her drink alcohol, I usually hold a glass of coke but never tell her it is a glass of coke you holding, tell her its Pepsi X.O. or whatever. Objective is not to get drunk.

I am assuming you know how to be mysterious, and use Kino to make the girl feel comfortable. You will know if she let you fuk her or not.

After a few drinks tell her lets get out, you know another place where you guys can talk, drink... or whatever you mood is. This is why I have a mini bar in my tiny apartment next to my comfortable bed. Be more aggressive using kino. Now, to fuk or not to fuk is really up to her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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