here is the deal..
I have been friends with a chick from a different country for two years now, we saw each other once when we spent three days together but nothing happened.. when she went back we kept calling each other at least once a week.
She has a boyfriend who she says does not care for her, "he is playing with me but Im afraid to lose him". Apparently they have sex once or twice a month.
They lived together for 3 months but her 29!!! year old boyfriend could not really afford to pay the rent and chose to buy a car instead. So he moved back to his parents house and now is seeing her once a week or so.
I visited their city this week for my job and spent 3 days with the girl. Unfortunately she dragged her boyfriend along on several occasions, asif she wanted to confront us to see what would happen.
I thought I was being used until the moment when I had to leave back to Belgium. We were sitting in the restorant when I stood up and said goodbye (a taxi was waiting outside), she said she would come with me outside to say farewell, and her boyfriend remained inside. Once outside she grabbed my hand for the first time and began to cry.. (can girls fake tears?) She said : u told me that I needed love and I believe I have found it.. I have been waiting for so long to tell u this; sorry I brought my BF along, he means nothing to me.. I was totally speechless, kissed her and left.
I like the girl but dont understand why she kept her boyfriend so close to us all the time and especially why she had to play that theater at the end.
Im back home now and tried calling her.. all my calls and messages remained unanswered.
could it be that she used me to make her loser drug addicted BF feel jelous ?
the girl is EXTREMELY hot and sexy, while Im just average
I have been friends with a chick from a different country for two years now, we saw each other once when we spent three days together but nothing happened.. when she went back we kept calling each other at least once a week.
She has a boyfriend who she says does not care for her, "he is playing with me but Im afraid to lose him". Apparently they have sex once or twice a month.
They lived together for 3 months but her 29!!! year old boyfriend could not really afford to pay the rent and chose to buy a car instead. So he moved back to his parents house and now is seeing her once a week or so.
I visited their city this week for my job and spent 3 days with the girl. Unfortunately she dragged her boyfriend along on several occasions, asif she wanted to confront us to see what would happen.
I thought I was being used until the moment when I had to leave back to Belgium. We were sitting in the restorant when I stood up and said goodbye (a taxi was waiting outside), she said she would come with me outside to say farewell, and her boyfriend remained inside. Once outside she grabbed my hand for the first time and began to cry.. (can girls fake tears?) She said : u told me that I needed love and I believe I have found it.. I have been waiting for so long to tell u this; sorry I brought my BF along, he means nothing to me.. I was totally speechless, kissed her and left.
I like the girl but dont understand why she kept her boyfriend so close to us all the time and especially why she had to play that theater at the end.
Im back home now and tried calling her.. all my calls and messages remained unanswered.
could it be that she used me to make her loser drug addicted BF feel jelous ?
the girl is EXTREMELY hot and sexy, while Im just average