"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need advise

Mtch

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Hi DJ's,

I need some wise words from you guys about my current situation.

So there is this one girl that I am starting to like but she is right in the inner circle of my friends (also my friend for a long time). She also is sort of dating with one guy, but at the same time I know that she is in to me.

Right now I really don't know if I should ask her out or I should just let it go. Anyone have experience with dating close friends? Is it worth risking it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Atom Smasher

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Respect your friend. Men deal with loyalty and respect. Women have literally no concept of either of these virtues, and are therefore never worth it.

Like Bince says, Bros before hoes.
 
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