"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need Advices Badly

Ladiesssman

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I don't know if anyone of you remember my post. I was asking for advices and tips because I could find the guts to ask this girl out. The reason- she was in our big circle of friends and some of my friends are interested in her. Guess what, after all the hangouts and did the ask out, we did go out. And things started to happen. And what's next. She was into me. After we go out to dinner together, few times she come to sleep at my place. You can imagine what happen when we are together at my place. But I have a question as far as how far we go in term of intimacy. So far, I've been with her for 3 weeks. Things progress to kissing caressing. But it never goes further. She stops me everytime I attempted. Of course I always do it playfully. So what suggestions can you guys give me.






Thanks to all that give me the encouragement. My realization: Only the braves live freely. Don Juan teaches us to be brave.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Wiesman44

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she wants to take it slow. Wait til she's ready, there's nothing u can do
 

KillingTime

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She's not ready/you rushed it/you haven't set the mood right


P.S. anyone seen Pumping Iron? HAHA the title of this thread just cracked me up when i thought of Arnold giving "all the wrong ADVICES".... aight im out.
 

Jariel

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I agree with what has been said. If you like this woman, have patience and don't rush her. She'll let you know when she is ready.
 

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Have patience, otherwise you might F**K up a good thing going for you. Think with your head and not your D**K ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ladiesssman

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Thank you everyone for the input. I just wanted to share you a story of mine, somewhat successful one. This thread was related to my first post "this girl gives me mixed signals". The post was old to start with and later I couldn't find the thread when I want to continue posting on that same thread. Now I found it, you' can't miss reading it. Now if you read "this girl gives me mixed signals" you'll can share me your story. Hey, this is fun stuff. And tips from everyone here do give me some courage. What's interesting is some are just the opposite approach from each other. But it gives different ways of viewing and which one is for you.

If you miss "this girl give me mixed signals" thread, it's like missing a great movie.
 

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step your game up.

Homey dont be one of those people that watch things happen be one of those that make things happen. Mental telepathy doesnt work, start using that mouth of yours. When ever you get to those situations where she is almost but not quite sure, that's when its time for you to start talking. What do you say, anything, and everything it takes. She isnt stupid, she knew where it was heading but at the last minute got a little scared. This is where you verbally throw everything at her including the kitchen sink. Forget the chicken hearted crap of just sit back you better spit that game.
 
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