"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Here's the situation. There's a girl I work with who I have been friends with for awhile ( about six months or so) and to make a long story short I have developed feelings for her and am really not comfortable with being "just friends" anymore. About a month ago, we were talking and the subject of dating came up and I asked her if she ever considered the two of us dating. She said at one point she kind of thought about it but I really wasn't her type, or something to that effect. I forget her exact words. Anyway, I thought I could be cool with it and still be friends but after giving it more thought I don't think it's something I'm really comfortable with. I've barely spoken her to at all since then. I feel bad ignoring her but I don't know exactly what to do. My question is should I tell her that the reason I haven't been speaking to her is that I'm not comfortable with being just friends and that I do have feelings for her? Or should I just not say anything and keep ignoring her like I have been? What do you guys think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hay ppl, right i'm new to this thing. not new at meeting girls. to tell the truth a had alot of gfs in my time. and i'm only 19. heres the thing right. i realy fancy this girl i work with. she is really nice well and fit. everyone likes her, thats the problem if she was just ok looking i would jump and ask her. but she is well fit blond nice eyes and good body.

but she has got kind of a boyfriend, and he is a **** towards her he calls her names and there not together at the moment they just had a braek but he still calls her on the fone asking where she is and who she is with. he traets her like a dog.

right i liked her since she started working with me and we do get on really well together she laughs at my jokes and stuff and she thinks i am a really nice guy. i ask her to *** town with me a few weeks ago and she said yes, so i was buzzing but her boyfriend was ring up every ten minits. god give her a braek will you. well to cut it short we had a top time really got to no her and got to like her. and the other week she ask to met me at about 12,30am. well i thought this is my chance to tell her how i feel. but i chickened out. we did fert alot that night to. i really wanted to kiss her but i **** my self. anyway. that night i asked her to *** to a gig with me, one of the best rock bands every INME, u may have never heard of them but there mint yeah anyway the gig is cuming up soon and she is cuming with me. i want her to have a good time and i want her to start liking me. well thats if she does not already like me. what sould i do? i really do like her aswell but i don't want to **** up are friendship plz help ppl. cheers
 
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