need advice

[indy05]

Here's the situation. There's a girl I work with who I have been friends with for awhile ( about six months or so) and to make a long story short I have developed feelings for her and am really not comfortable with being "just friends" anymore. About a month ago, we were talking and the subject of dating came up and I asked her if she ever considered the two of us dating. She said at one point she kind of thought about it but I really wasn't her type, or something to that effect. I forget her exact words. Anyway, I thought I could be cool with it and still be friends but after giving it more thought I don't think it's something I'm really comfortable with. I've barely spoken her to at all since then. I feel bad ignoring her but I don't know exactly what to do. My question is should I tell her that the reason I haven't been speaking to her is that I'm not comfortable with being just friends and that I do have feelings for her? Or should I just not say anything and keep ignoring her like I have been? What do you guys think?

 

[manc lad]

i need help here?

Hay ppl, right i'm new to this thing. not new at meeting girls. to tell the truth a had alot of gfs in my time. and i'm only 19. heres the thing right. i realy fancy this girl i work with. she is really nice well and fit. everyone likes her, thats the problem if she was just ok looking i would jump and ask her. but she is well fit blond nice eyes and good body.

but she has got kind of a boyfriend, and he is a **** towards her he calls her names and there not together at the moment they just had a braek but he still calls her on the fone asking where she is and who she is with. he traets her like a dog.

right i liked her since she started working with me and we do get on really well together she laughs at my jokes and stuff and she thinks i am a really nice guy. i ask her to *** town with me a few weeks ago and she said yes, so i was buzzing but her boyfriend was ring up every ten minits. god give her a braek will you. well to cut it short we had a top time really got to no her and got to like her. and the other week she ask to met me at about 12,30am. well i thought this is my chance to tell her how i feel. but i chickened out. we did fert alot that night to. i really wanted to kiss her but i **** my self. anyway. that night i asked her to *** to a gig with me, one of the best rock bands every INME, u may have never heard of them but there mint yeah anyway the gig is cuming up soon and she is cuming with me. i want her to have a good time and i want her to start liking me. well thats if she does not already like me. what sould i do? i really do like her aswell but i don't want to **** up are friendship plz help ppl. cheers