"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Arnzy

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I had something like fwb relationship with that girl. But it ended as just friends, however we have sometimes sex.
Two weeks ago we had sex again over 3 months. This weekend we cuddled and kissed a lot. Also, we are very good friends. I clearly see that she doesn't have same feelings like I have. We argue a lot recently because I won't do anything to her, if I see no romantic feelings for me.
So I think I have two options. First, I block her and disappear from her life, although I see her everyday. Second choice is to keep that "thing" going, I f*ck her sometimes even when she compares me to her girlfriends. So things ain't so bad.
Only problem is that I'm attached to her quite a lot. Of course I try to spin plates and meet other girls/women. But I live in small city where there is not so many people. Next year I will move to bigger city. I'm only 18.
Actually, I see no point blocking her. I see her everyday, we go to same parties. So I should just keep her and do nothing and use her just for sex, whenever I get it, even when I'm attached to her?
Guys, what do you think?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The mistake men often make is believing they can "control a relationship" after they become co-dependent and emotionally invested in a woman. This is not possible.

Once you care more about the relationship than the woman does.. you have lost the game. No PUA tricks, gimmicks, games or techniques will change this. The person who cares the LEAST has the power and that is all there is to it. You can manipulate women into working harder or feeling more insecure, but this is like putting a band-aid on a severed finger. The core problem is giving more f*cks than the woman does.

SO.. you either need to find a way to care LESS or you need to accept your position as her b!tch. Those are really your two choices.

Keep spinning plates.
 

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To me, this sounds like the type of girl who just wants you to be more aggressive with her when initiating sex. Don't kiss. Don't cuddle. No foreplay. Just bend her over, nail the sh*t out of it and go make a sandwich or something. You don't necessarily have to treat her like dog sh*t or anything. Just let her know YOU have decided it's sex time.

I'll bet she'll start to show you a few "romantic feelings" then...
... And learn how to eat pvssy. Eat her right, and fvck her right... Have your own life, and stop spending so much time with her.

If that doesn't work... So long, baby!
 

dude99

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I had something like fwb relationship with that girl. But it ended as just friends, however we have sometimes sex.
Two weeks ago we had sex again over 3 months. This weekend we cuddled and kissed a lot. Also, we are very good friends. I clearly see that she doesn't have same feelings like I have. We argue a lot recently because I won't do anything to her, if I see no romantic feelings for me.
So I think I have two options. First, I block her and disappear from her life, although I see her everyday. Second choice is to keep that "thing" going, I f*ck her sometimes even when she compares me to her girlfriends. So things ain't so bad.
Only problem is that I'm attached to her quite a lot. Of course I try to spin plates and meet other girls/women. But I live in small city where there is not so many people. Next year I will move to bigger city. I'm only 18.
Actually, I see no point blocking her. I see her everyday, we go to same parties. So I should just keep her and do nothing and use her just for sex, whenever I get it, even when I'm attached to her?
Guys, what do you think?
Spin plates. Spin more plates. Just make her a plate. Nothingmore
 

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Also, I'm confused how should I behave with her.
This girl loves drama and action so much. It seems that she even likes if I ruin her mood. She is never upset or anything after that, sometimes she even initiates contact after big drama. Same time she likes beta guys. She can't say "no" to them. Her emotions go up and down all the time, it's so easy to manipulate with her.
So, if I rise her emotions very high and moment later bring them down and ruin her mood... What effects this behavior might have? She won't block or cut me off from her life anyway. This isn't an option for her.
I spin plates, tomorrow I have a date with another girl. But it's quite interesting to test her emotions.
I don't feel bad if I play with her like that. If I don't do it, someone/something else will do it anyway.
Any other ideas to do with that kind of girl, who loves drama so much?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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RangerMIke

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Relationships are the territory of women. You simply can not worry about what your 'status' is with a chick... all you do is fvck her and other women.... let them decide what it means.
 
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