"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need Advice!

surfdog

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There's this girl that I've met recently at work. Short, curvy blonde chick...EXTREMELY CUTE! We've had a few conversations, jokes, and bit of kino and she seemed pretty cool..normally I'll know what to do at this point but she has a bf atm.

Last week I overheard her talking with another female collegue about her boyfriend..she's planning on breaking up with him because she can't decide whether she likes him or not.

I just want to know if this is a good time to make a move? and what would be the best way to approach a girl whos about to break up with her bf?

cheers guys
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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djinhell

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I am inclined to say STEER CLEAR!!!!!

Girls have a tendency to ***** and moan about their bf's and say they are gonna end the relationship, but never actually end up doing it.

If on the other hand she does end it, then by all means make your moves...Its just such a headache getting involved with a chick in a relationship...and your mind will probably end up torturing you!

If you just want to fvck her though, play your game!

Dj In Hell
 

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The guy's right.

Don't put too much thought or effort trying to rope her over.

Until she really breaks up, then GO for her.

The best you can do now is respect HER current bf. You never know who he is too.
 

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Thanks guys for the responses so far!

right now I'm taking it easy, keeping myself from getting emotionally involved. But I don't just want to fvck her..bcause she is really my type of girl in both looks and personality and I would like to persue a relationship.

The thing is from what I've heard about her bf...he's abit of an AFC and she is only staying with him beacuse she doesn't want to hurt him because he's been hurt many times before..:eek:


im just not sure what to do..because I'm scared that I'll fall into the friend zone if i dont make a move soon..but I dont really like muscling another guys chick regardless who he is or whether hes a DJ or AFC.

what would be the best thing for me to do?

thanks guys
 
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