"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need Advice!

surfdog

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There's this girl that I've met recently at work. Short, curvy blonde chick...EXTREMELY CUTE! We've had a few conversations, jokes, and bit of kino and she seemed pretty cool..normally I'll know what to do at this point but she has a bf atm.

Last week I overheard her talking with another female collegue about her boyfriend..she's planning on breaking up with him because she can't decide whether she likes him or not.

I just want to know if this is a good time to make a move? and what would be the best way to approach a girl whos about to break up with her bf?

cheers guys
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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djinhell

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I am inclined to say STEER CLEAR!!!!!

Girls have a tendency to ***** and moan about their bf's and say they are gonna end the relationship, but never actually end up doing it.

If on the other hand she does end it, then by all means make your moves...Its just such a headache getting involved with a chick in a relationship...and your mind will probably end up torturing you!

If you just want to fvck her though, play your game!

Dj In Hell
 

Allurre

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The guy's right.

Don't put too much thought or effort trying to rope her over.

Until she really breaks up, then GO for her.

The best you can do now is respect HER current bf. You never know who he is too.
 

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Thanks guys for the responses so far!

right now I'm taking it easy, keeping myself from getting emotionally involved. But I don't just want to fvck her..bcause she is really my type of girl in both looks and personality and I would like to persue a relationship.

The thing is from what I've heard about her bf...he's abit of an AFC and she is only staying with him beacuse she doesn't want to hurt him because he's been hurt many times before..:eek:


im just not sure what to do..because I'm scared that I'll fall into the friend zone if i dont make a move soon..but I dont really like muscling another guys chick regardless who he is or whether hes a DJ or AFC.

what would be the best thing for me to do?

thanks guys
 
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