"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm in college and there is this girl in one of my classes. She has shown lots of interest and I got her number and we are planning on hanging out next week. Well, anyways I just went on facebook and it said that she was in a relationship with some guy. This class is once a week and we flirt around a lot and she has never mentioned her boyfriend. Do you guys think I should still proceed or should I just use my own judgment as it goes?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm in the same boat bro. Everything she's with me show shows signs that she's into me. So I gave her some space and I'll ask her if she would come out for coffee one morning or something. IF she declines, **** it, I'll move to another one.

The thing with girls like that is that they don't want to reject you but at the same time don't want to break up with their bf's. So they try to hold on to you and use you as a bf replacement when they break up or argue or whatever. I would try to let her know that such behavior is not acceptable, and see where it goes from there.
 
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Just go with the flow. If she mentions to you that she has a boyfriend then, bail.
 
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If you like her, why let her boyfriend stop you? She sounds like she wants to meet up with you, so meet her and see how things go from there. I wouldn't even mention her boyfriend.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just PM me and we can rearrange to make sure the BF is out of the picture if you know what I mean..
 
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Thanks, I'll let her know that I know whats up and see what happens.
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Why worry of her relationship status? Why bring it up if it does not worry her? It would only make you appear weak for bringing something baseless up. Lest you know she does not have a boyfriend. She probably said she does on facebook to keep chump guys like yourself away from her. It would be a laughter for her to tell her "hey I though you don't have a boyfriend but i checked your facebook and it says you have a boyfriend." Ridiculous. First you accused her have something, which she is probably not. Second, she'd perceive it as if you're "spying" on her.
I suggest you treat her like you'd to any other girl.... a single girl. Next time, don't facebook.
 
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As far as she knows I havent even seen her facebook. I'll just act like I never saw it and like you said, if she doesnt care, then I don't.
 
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