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Need advice with this shy foreign chick situation !

Juninho

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I find myself in a tricky situation that i have no experience in, Basically my Mother (Single Mother) who i don't live with, has hired a Nanny to look after my two young sisters while she works during the day. The arrangement is the nanny lives in the house and works Monday-Friday and has the weekend off to do as she pleases. She did this all of last year with a different nanny(HB4),which went well.

The situation is, this new nanny is a HB8.5 lol. She's 18 from Belgium, been living in the UK for 4 months. Her English is fairly decent but she seems very introverted. She gets on brilliantly with my Mother and sisters so far and she comes across as a really down to earth nice girl.(They don't exist:yawn: blah blah lol).She actually seems kinda oblivious to how hot she is. She doesn't really make much conversation, but she obviously conversates back when you speak to her kind of thing.

I go to the house every Sunday usually to visit the family and my interactions with her so far during the 2 weeks she's been living in the house have been pleasant,but i'm struggling to get closer to her and i don't know to approach this situation at all. I'm defiantly attracted to her, I don't even necessarily want anything serious with her or to treat her like a side plate by having sex with her and kicking her to curb. Selfishly she would make excellent social proof, and i fancy this as a kind off side project or a challenge so to speak.


How would you guys approach this one then and any advice you guys can give me ??
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Personally I wouldn't f*ck with someone who is so involved with my family just because it gets messy but your circumstances may be different so on that basis I'll advise.

Foreign or not a chick is a chick. You need to strike up conversation and make her laugh. With Europeans this is quite easy talk about her. Everyone loves to talk about themselves. So ask her about what made her come to the UK, how she is finding it, if she misses Belgium, show an interest in her, ask her if she has a boyfriend that will indirectly tell her your interested.

Europeans in the UK are usually fairly easy to pull. But that's because they're usually keen on finding a partner and settling down. Your challenge here is that she is 18 and probably not looking to settle down but will still be interested in having fun. One angle you could take on this is talk to her about London, tell her about some of the sights for example "have you ever been to madame tassauds?". When she say's no you play it up "oh its wonderful they have wax figures of all the famous people, you must go and see it" then you offer to take her.

If you come up with a couple of angles and she doesn't take you up then it means she doesn't find you attractive and you need to move on.
 

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Fugitive said:
[A]sk her if she has a boyfriend that will indirectly tell her your interested.
Absolutely not. Asking a woman if she has a boyfriend is **** blocking yourself and erecting a moral wall that she "shouldn't cross." A woman who finds you attractive will engage in extra-pair copulation (i.e., have sex with a guy other than her partner) if you lead the way.

Would you NOT bang this hb8.5 if she was in her underwear in front of you but told you she has a boyfriend? Dude please....:kick:

Fugitive said:
One angle you could take on this is talk to her about London, tell her about some of the sights for example "have you ever been to madame tassauds?". When she say's no you play it up "oh its wonderful they have wax figures of all the famous people, you must go and see it" then you offer to take her.
I like this approach a little better. It gets the conversation going. Chat about a place "I'm going to XYZ on Friday night, come with me." However, you need to convey interest before that. Touch her while you talk, tickle her, or interpret her behavior as trying to make a move on you. Let us know how this goes!

PS: I have banged women with boyfriends, who also happened to be some of the best lays I have ever had.
 
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