"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Need Advice. Whats Wrong?

CORVETTE06

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Whats wrong with me? I no longer get excited to go on dates with girls. I dont even want to make out with them anymore. I am certainly not gay. im fussy and i know what i want. and if the girl im gonna go on a date wit isnt exactly what i want, im not enthused. please help.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mac_Laaarry

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Hopefully you're like me and have grown beyond the stage of pettiness. You know what you want and will settle for nothing less. So many men waste the majority of their time on sites like this and on women in general instead of being more productive. It's so much more satisfying to secure the woman you truly desire then progressing with your life. Or maybe you are just gay.ha.
 

havybastard

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I dont like picking up a chick who i dont think meets my level or above. Its good to have standards and not be like other dudes, who will **** fattys, or ****ing ugly chicks then brag about it
 

WC2

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I've found that when you're lacking passion in your life, you're lacking the excitement of a woman.

When I say passion, I mean personal passion. Do you have the passion to do something great on your own right now? Do you have the passion and drive to improve one aspect of your life right now?

If you answered no or maybe to these questions, then most likely you don't have the passion to go on a date and vibe with a girl.

It's almost like the passion of self improvement and love work on the same wavelengths (for me at least).

I went out and started my own company a year ago. Around the same time, I was gaming/laying more girls than I ever had before.

My suggestion is get inspired. Do some research on amazing people. Try to inspire yourself to be better than them. Come up with some new things to add to your life. Hell, if you can't think of something on your own then go buy a damn self improvement book.

It wasn't too long ago that I found that improving your personal life, ultimately improves your love life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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