"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Need Advice Very Hot Date Coming Up Shes Half Italian/Brazil 9.5 on a 1-10 scale

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Igetit!

Moderator
Joined
Jul 13, 2008
Messages
2,880
Reaction score
920
Location
The United State of Texas
alwaysimproving7 said:
I just need some help from the master gurus on a day 2 coming up basically I have a date and gonna spend like 4+ hours with her and not 20mins as opposed to when I first met her.
Well,I'm no guru,but Let me see what I can do.
Question number 1:Who set up the date,and why in the world is it 4 hours long? Not saying that's a bad thing,as long as you two are enjoying yourselves. If things are fun,the time will fly by. If not,4 hours will seem like an eternity. So again:Who sat up the date?


alwaysimproving7 said:
She wants to meet me at a mall because she wants to go to Victorias Secret. I already know when I see her in the parking lot I'm gonna give her a hug followed with a kiss and of course more kino. But what should I talk about with her?
Well,to be honest,it doesn't really matter what you talk about. You can talk about whatever....AS LONG AS the conversation is emotionally stimulating to her. That's the key to you being successful. Women are emotional,they want to feel. Therefore,when you two talk to each other,make sure she feels SOME EMOTION. Happy,excitement,curiosity,even a little anger. Just make sure she feels something. The one thing you'll want to avoid AT ALL COST is her feeling BORED. If that happens,more than likely,it's game over.

Now the best way to make her feels emotions,is for YOU to be feeling the emotion YOURSELF while you're talking to her. You want her to feel excited? Then while you're talking to her,BE excited. Talk about something that really excites you,then she'll feel the excitement coming from you,then she'll feel it too. Do the same thing with other emotions. You don't have to do this throughout the whole date. Just from time to time.

alwaysimproving7 said:
I already know to take charge and lead with holding her hand and having good body language so I'm thinking is this when body language plays a bigger role with NOT how much you say but the way you carry yourself?
Bingo dude. Right on the money. :up:

alwaysimproving7 said:
She wants to see a movie with me after the mall. I'm 21 btw and shes 25.
So after spending 4 hours together,she wants to go see a movie? Wow,that's one heck of a long date.

The main things I want to stress are:

1: Stimulate her emotions. Make her feel something.

2: Whatever it was you were doing,whatever it was you were saying,however it was you were acting and behaving around her when you first met her generated attraction in her towards you. So to the best of your ability,continue being,doing,and acting and behaving the same as you were when you two FIRST met.

Quite simply,if it ain't broke,don't fix it.

Good luck man. :up:
 
Top