"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need Advice -Social Status Proof (Cars, Clothes, and Jewelry)

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Money2burn

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eminence said:
are you selling drugs on the side or something? how much can u be making as a 24 year old fireman? Tag, prada shoes, 40k bmw's? Since when can firefighters blow $1000+ on a watch and not be broke after?
Most of us have Full time side jobs. I have a business partnership that i am making good money with.

I believe Ostepop is getting where i was coming from in this thread. I appreciate the way you broke it down for me. I'm not going to get any jewelry and i'll be working on my watch and shoe game first. I try to dress nice. I like a nice button down... pair of seven jeans.

Thank you for the examples. Thats exactly what i was hoping to get out of the thread. Do u have a better link for the Tag watch, because it links to Arnold Schwarzenegger pointing at me.

Do you know what the first two things a girl notices about a male is? Your smile, your shoes, and your watch. The first one is strickly looks, the last two are to try to figure out how much money you got.
I notice this! As far as dress shoes can u link examples? Too me all dress shoes pretty much look the same... But i know its an important factor in your whole appearance. Something that doesn't look doofy with size 12 feet. LoL
 

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Alot of folks have a Tag Heuer, look into Breitling (= to Rolex, notch above Tag), try something in the Aeromarine or Professional lineup@ MSRP 2.5-5K.

Breitling SuperOcean is my choice.

Breitling is makes instrument dials for Bentley Motors as well as 5-25K Bentley inspired watch line.

I got compliments on it all the time, works as a good convo starter to. The watch certainly does not make the man, but if you can afford a financial burden of a few K on your wrist, IMHO it projects success.
 

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I buy expensive ****.

Not so much clothes because none of the good names make **** in my size. but cars and nice watches make me feel good about myself. Not to attract women, but I honestly just feel above the social norm driving in a 50k luxury car and being 22.

I don't do anything because it will benefit how others think of me, I do it because I like it and it makes me feel good to have nice things.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Money2burn said:
Do u need more than 1 watch?
Not unless you buy a glossy diamond thingy.

As far as shoe goes anything pointy thats made out of leather and preferably italian. (Just look at gucci dress shoes)
 
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