How should I proceed? Do I call or wait for her to call?!
I met this girl where I go shop for my supplies. Never thought I could have something with this girl because she isn't the kind of girl I usually go after.
But she started convos whenever I would be at her lane.
We went out a couple times but nothing serious, bowling, crepes (she fed me and I fed her deal) and pool.
She broke up with her bf after our second outing and called me to let me know. this was the first week of this month.
Afterwards she would call me on an everyday basis and text me, she would be going out shewould text me, she wouldtext me when she would get home and so on...
So that weekend she asks me what I am doing I responded I dont know yet, so I told her to call me she got off work if she wanted to get together.
She didn't call, so I called her. Bad move rite? So she told me that she was going to go and hangout with her brother and some friends and I can come too if I wanted.
I met up with them, her gay brother and his gay friends, 2 other straight guys and myself plus her. So I wasn't really concentrated on her since it was a group event. Herbrother said I was cool. But as we were having a conversation I made my argument and closed it with "I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on this" and they both look at each other and brother commented something to her. WTF?!
So afterwards the calls and txt stop... i txt her telling her that i would be available that comming weekend, she didn't reply... so I try calling, I get a I'm so sleepy.... so I drop her number... This is 3 weeks later after meeting up with her brotherand the group.
So I still get my supplies from the store where she works at.... I sometimes go to her lane just because she is fast and the others are just me waiting in line for 20 mins. So i am always polite but not hitting on her or showing her that I am confused on what has happened...
So today in the morning I needed some supplies and as I was getting to the check out stations. I was heading into a girls lane, when I hear her asking me if I was ready...I said yeah.. so we start a conversation...
She tells me what's up you dont call, you dont text...
and the other day you left wihout saying goodbye...
I told her I did and didnt hearback... that communication is a 2 way street.
She responded well it's all about me....
I didn't respond to that... but changed the subject ...
she then told me that she got a 2nd job close to where I work and
I said great so I'm a see more of you then?
She said afterhours yeah, So.... that was that Left it at that...without saying goodbye...
So now what should I do? I like her and want to keep her interested but don't want to make it seem im uninterested either.
All comments and suggestions are appreciated.
I met this girl where I go shop for my supplies. Never thought I could have something with this girl because she isn't the kind of girl I usually go after.
But she started convos whenever I would be at her lane.
We went out a couple times but nothing serious, bowling, crepes (she fed me and I fed her deal) and pool.
She broke up with her bf after our second outing and called me to let me know. this was the first week of this month.
Afterwards she would call me on an everyday basis and text me, she would be going out shewould text me, she wouldtext me when she would get home and so on...
So that weekend she asks me what I am doing I responded I dont know yet, so I told her to call me she got off work if she wanted to get together.
She didn't call, so I called her. Bad move rite? So she told me that she was going to go and hangout with her brother and some friends and I can come too if I wanted.
I met up with them, her gay brother and his gay friends, 2 other straight guys and myself plus her. So I wasn't really concentrated on her since it was a group event. Herbrother said I was cool. But as we were having a conversation I made my argument and closed it with "I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on this" and they both look at each other and brother commented something to her. WTF?!
So afterwards the calls and txt stop... i txt her telling her that i would be available that comming weekend, she didn't reply... so I try calling, I get a I'm so sleepy.... so I drop her number... This is 3 weeks later after meeting up with her brotherand the group.
So I still get my supplies from the store where she works at.... I sometimes go to her lane just because she is fast and the others are just me waiting in line for 20 mins. So i am always polite but not hitting on her or showing her that I am confused on what has happened...
So today in the morning I needed some supplies and as I was getting to the check out stations. I was heading into a girls lane, when I hear her asking me if I was ready...I said yeah.. so we start a conversation...
She tells me what's up you dont call, you dont text...
and the other day you left wihout saying goodbye...
I told her I did and didnt hearback... that communication is a 2 way street.
She responded well it's all about me....
I didn't respond to that... but changed the subject ...
she then told me that she got a 2nd job close to where I work and
I said great so I'm a see more of you then?
She said afterhours yeah, So.... that was that Left it at that...without saying goodbye...
So now what should I do? I like her and want to keep her interested but don't want to make it seem im uninterested either.
All comments and suggestions are appreciated.
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