Need Advice please

[timmylivingalie]

I met this beautiful tall blonde yesterday had instant attraction she gave her number within a minute of meeting her without asking her for it.She texts me that she's coming to meet me but flakes. But now she keeps playing weird games with me. She pulls in behind me or close to me where ever Im sitting in my car and acts like shes going to pull in and talk to me but she then just drives off and she even followed to to a store. Now she stopped answering my text messages. What should my next move be?

 

[Iceberg]

You said you met her yesterday, but she pulls in near your car, follows you to a store, drives away from you without speaking, and stopped answering your texts.

This must have been one hell of a day.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Sounds like an attention hore thriving on your attempts to hook up with her.
She may throw you the odd bone of a meeting or conversation but that's just to keep you on the hook.

Go instant no contact and deprive her of the thing that's feeding her ego - YOU.

Unless she's asking to meet up with you, she's not worth your time or response.

 

[timmylivingalie]

You said you met her yesterday, but she pulls in near your car, follows you to a store, drives away from you without speaking, and stopped answering your texts.

This must have been one hell of a day.

Oh it was I forgot to mention she got out of her car and bent over and she had short shorts on she is tormenting the crap out of me. lol

 

[timmylivingalie]

Sounds like an attention hore thriving on your attempts to hook up with her.
She may throw you the odd bone of a meeting or conversation but that's just to keep you on the hook.

Go instant no contact and deprive her of the thing that's feeding her ego - YOU.

Unless she's asking to meet up with you, she's not worth your time or response.

I should have did that today but she just came on so strong yesterday I thought it was on. I may have really messed up I sent her a text saying I give up and didnt get a response back.

 

[HalfAddict]

^ dude, why did you bother, forget her...I give up...sheesh just delete her number.

 

[timmylivingalie]

^ dude, why did you bother, forget her...I give up...sheesh just delete her number.

There is just so few women here it is hard to find a chic that is not married and she is a solid 9. I know I should just move on but would like to move forward with her if possible.

 

[scrouds]

restraining order? Is she really stalking you or am I reading that wrong?

 

[wait_out]

ha ha i love this forum sometimes

this girl is probably writing a thread somewhere "Mind games with my friend at work!!!!"

 

[SecondHalf]

There is just so few women here it is hard to find a chic that is not married and she is a solid 9. I know I should just move on but would like to move forward with her if possible.

Maybe she's a solid 9, unmarried chic in a small town full of married people for a reason ... :crazy:

Pay no attention to her, if she wants, she'll come around, just keep the control.

SH

 

[timmylivingalie]

Maybe she's a solid 9, unmarried chic in a small town full of married people for a reason ... :crazy:

Pay no attention to her, if she wants, she'll come around, just keep the control.

SH

Thanks, she is new in town and think she may be living with another dude. Im afraid I may already have gave up any power I had by chasing her. I have not contacted her since last night and she has not came around.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Be strong, Timmy. She's obviously a complete nutter.

 

[ezio]

ha ha i love this forum sometimes

this girl is probably writing a thread somewhere "Mind games with my friend at work!!!!"

hahaha!! girl waves her hand and OP starts reading non- existent signals

 

[timmylivingalie]

hahaha!! girl waves her hand and OP starts reading non- existent signals

It was existent she iniated everything with me.

 

[Greasy Pig]

I've been there, OP.
A girl will boost her own ego any way she can. So she'll do anything except fvck in order to achieve that because once she lets a guy fvck her, she loses all the power. Game over.
Learn from this and learn to recognise the signs early. Never show you're overly interested in her, keep her guessing, don't buy into her bullsht.