"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I met this beautiful tall blonde yesterday had instant attraction she gave her number within a minute of meeting her without asking her for it.She texts me that she's coming to meet me but flakes. But now she keeps playing weird games with me. She pulls in behind me or close to me where ever Im sitting in my car and acts like shes going to pull in and talk to me but she then just drives off and she even followed to to a store. Now she stopped answering my text messages. What should my next move be?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You said you met her yesterday, but she pulls in near your car, follows you to a store, drives away from you without speaking, and stopped answering your texts.

This must have been one hell of a day.
 
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Sounds like an attention hore thriving on your attempts to hook up with her.
She may throw you the odd bone of a meeting or conversation but that's just to keep you on the hook.

Go instant no contact and deprive her of the thing that's feeding her ego - YOU.

Unless she's asking to meet up with you, she's not worth your time or response.
 
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Iceberg said:
You said you met her yesterday, but she pulls in near your car, follows you to a store, drives away from you without speaking, and stopped answering your texts.

This must have been one hell of a day.
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Oh it was I forgot to mention she got out of her car and bent over and she had short shorts on she is tormenting the crap out of me. lol
 
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Greasy Pig said:
Sounds like an attention hore thriving on your attempts to hook up with her.
She may throw you the odd bone of a meeting or conversation but that's just to keep you on the hook.

Go instant no contact and deprive her of the thing that's feeding her ego - YOU.

Unless she's asking to meet up with you, she's not worth your time or response.
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I should have did that today but she just came on so strong yesterday I thought it was on. I may have really messed up I sent her a text saying I give up and didnt get a response back.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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HalfAddict said:
^ dude, why did you bother, forget her...I give up...sheesh just delete her number.
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There is just so few women here it is hard to find a chic that is not married and she is a solid 9. I know I should just move on but would like to move forward with her if possible.
 
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restraining order? Is she really stalking you or am I reading that wrong?
 
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timmylivingalie said:
There is just so few women here it is hard to find a chic that is not married and she is a solid 9. I know I should just move on but would like to move forward with her if possible.
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Maybe she's a solid 9, unmarried chic in a small town full of married people for a reason ... :crazy:

Pay no attention to her, if she wants, she'll come around, just keep the control.

SH
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SecondHalf said:
Maybe she's a solid 9, unmarried chic in a small town full of married people for a reason ... :crazy:

Pay no attention to her, if she wants, she'll come around, just keep the control.

SH
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Thanks, she is new in town and think she may be living with another dude. Im afraid I may already have gave up any power I had by chasing her. I have not contacted her since last night and she has not came around.
 
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Be strong, Timmy. She's obviously a complete nutter.
 
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wait_out said:
ha ha i love this forum sometimes

this girl is probably writing a thread somewhere "Mind games with my friend at work!!!!"
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hahaha!! girl waves her hand and OP starts reading non- existent signals
 
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I've been there, OP.
A girl will boost her own ego any way she can. So she'll do anything except fvck in order to achieve that because once she lets a guy fvck her, she loses all the power. Game over.
Learn from this and learn to recognise the signs early. Never show you're overly interested in her, keep her guessing, don't buy into her bullsht.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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