"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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habzie

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hi, i hope you can give me some advice basically im a student at university..


i met a girl in a student night out.. .. and we started talking on facebook and getting on well but after a few days she had took me off for no reason.. maybe her friend influenced her not to talk to me .. or whatever

anyways i than bumped in to her at university and we started talking again.. and i she wanted mcdonalds.. so i took her there and i got to know more about her... and walked her home... and everything was postive we was getting along again

next day i came university do some work i saw her on the computer i approached her with a smile and said hi how are you? she said what you doing here.. i said just like every one came to study... and than she said are you stalking me? i said what you talking about .. she really pissed me off than and i called her rude arogant ***** and walked away..

after that i said sorry to her on facebook a few times.. and she said fuk off to me and leave her alone.. now

everytime i see her well once or twice at the university ive said hey, im sorry she just turned around saying fuk off each time lol.. i reallyt dont know what to do i felt we had connected... please any advice
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Let it go.

She is not interested in you. Doesn't matter why; her actions speak louder than words. Move on.

Plenty of fish in the sea...

HC
 

DonGorgon

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habzie said:
after that i said sorry to her on facebook a few times.. and she said fuk off to me and leave her alone.. now

you are a typical desperate male... you have no chance with this one so move on to the next one. if you keep trying this one she will talk about you and trash your name and you will be labeled as lame be many other girls and then your life will get harder..lol

forget her and move on..
 
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