"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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need advice on tinder pics

Chamber36

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I need a pro who I can PM my pics who will give me good advice. Was gonna send em to naughty/humble ninja but I see that he's been banned.

So is there anyone who is willing to take a look at my pics and gimme some advice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Get a friend to take quality as f*** pics of you with an slr bro
 

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lol ur fvckin right although i will attract tons of hoes. that's darwinist life eh
 

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Icegreen said:
Get a friend to take quality as f*** pics of you with an slr bro
This.

And regarding poses/scenery. You have 6 pic slots on tinder and it should break down as such.

1. Good face shot.
2. A shot of you in some of your best clothes, looking nonchalant with a good mysterious tone. (Id prefer darker scenery for this.
3. A shot of you out having fun with the boys.
4. A shot of you out having fun with the ladies.
5. A shot of you doing a hobbie you very much enjoy. (preferably active and/or adventurous)
6. A body shot of some sort. Preferably a beach or sports shot so you dont look like youre vain. But if you have a great body, a selfie wont kill you.

I do my pics like this and feel its varied and fun. Anyone else care to chime in?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Have a chick go through your pics and give her opinion on your best ones
 

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Yes, my roommate is a photographer with a DSLR (60D), and he took a bunch of shots of me, some in nice like button up and vneck sweater, and some in a tight vneck tee that shows off my body. Use a nice 85mm lens with shallow focus and good warm, low key lighting

I put those up instead of my sh!tty selfies i had up and INSTANTLY started getting results. 5's and 6's would open me.

You can PM me yours for feedback, and i can show you what mine look like (no homo brah)
 

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And then when I get a match... open immediately or what? I am thinking yes. And say what? random sh*t?
 

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i dont think it matters how soon you open. Timing is important in the sense that you probably dont want to hit them up in the early morning or whatever. try to catch them when they're not busy (sunday afternoon)

as for openers...thats a whole nother animal. Everyone has different opinions and theres many approaches...basically you can go with the safe, friendly approach, or you can get sexual very quickly (high risk, high reward)

My fallbacks when i can think of anything better are:

1) "You're cute." - she matched you, so you already know you find each other attractive. this is also a good alternative to the creepy "you're sexy" or "you're really hot" that most guys send. This one might be better used by guys who are very good looking as it is direct (not saying you're not), but try it and see what works. Usually they reply with "thanks, so are you" or just "thanks"

2) "name!" Just put an exclamation point after their name. for example "Carly!". This is good because it's simple, doesnt show that you sat there for 20 minutes constructing this elaborate, pathetic monologue. Its more personal and less boring than a "what's up?" or "hey"
 
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