need advice on this trainer that works in the gym

[909pua]

anyway, at my job, there's this trainer thats an HB7. anyway, she has an ok face but a nice booty. We have been talking here and there for like 3 weeks. My membership expired last friday and she let me in monday and tuesday w/o resistance. ANyways, she runs a morning 530 am class in running and she had asked me the last 2 times if i was gonna go join her. I told her yes but those last two times, i didnt go and each day after that i see her, she asks how come i didnt go and my excuse was that 530 am is too damn early for me. So today, when i left the gym, she asked me if i was gonna show up on thursday at 530 am , i said this time for sure i will be there and she said that i better be.

is this a test ? or is she showing me interest? what should i do next? should i just run with her, do small talk and go for the kill like "hey let's hang out and get a few drinks on friday night if you're not busy"

 

[King Turi]

You're idea sounds good, but drop the "if you're not busy" part and it'll go to plan, in my opinion.

Whether she's interested or not, well, who cares, you'll find out after you tell her to come have some drinks with you on friday night.

 

[SickAgain]

I wouldn't go in with any pre-conceived lines. Just be natural and feel it out. But definitely get her number or something!

 

[909pua]

ok here is an update:

as i told her i would take the running class with her at 530 am. it turns up i didnt wake up on time and i didn't end up going. instead i went to the gym during lunch time and i saw her. this is the conversation:

Me: hey damn, i didn't hear the alarm again, i put that on full blast and didn't hear it. its just im not used to waking up at 430 am.
her: wow, no one showed up this morning. Im thinking of just running the class once a week since no one really shows up.
Me: hey, why don't me and you just run on our own time like during lunch (i told this to her in a very PERSONAL EXCLUSIVE WAY)
her: oh i know, i have been thinking about joining you guys (usually i run with my buddy during lunch)
Me: well he doesn't run with me that much anymore so it will be just me and you
her: oh that's cool.
Me: Or if lunch times dont work for you, we can run after work. what time you get out?
her: i usually get out at 4.
Me: well whenever is cool with you, just hit me up and let me know.
her: OK, ya. HOw far do you usually run?
Me: i usually run like 3 miles
her: wow that's too far for me, i was thinking of like doing 2 miles or something
Me: well just let m know if you WANT TO RUN WITH ME.. i go in here lunch times everyday, just feel free to hit me up

So that was it. I did my part, i let her know my door is open, so its up to her to follow up? or should i step it up even more and ask her out for some drinks sometimes next week? right now i;m just feeling her out, if she comes back and starts talking to me again in a personal way, then i will step it up. i would ask her to get drinks for friday but im going out with some chick on so i would rather wait til next week to ask her and give it time to see if she responds or shows interest. What you guys think, how am i doing? do you guys think i have a chance? What should be my next move?

 

[zekko]

She expressed interest in running with you, so you should have set up a definite time. As it is, you're letting her be in charge of the situation, when you should be taking charge.
Not saying you're doing terrible, but that's the critique I would make.

 

[scrouds]

ok here is an update:

as i told her i would take the running class with her at 530 am. it turns up i didnt wake up on time and i didn't end up going. instead i went to the gym during lunch time and i saw her. this is the conversation:

Me: hey damn, i didn't hear the alarm again, i put that on full blast and didn't hear it. its just im not used to waking up at 430 am.

Qualifying yourself

her: wow, no one showed up this morning. Im thinking of just running the class once a week since no one really shows up.
Me: hey, why don't me and you just run on our own time like during lunch (i told this to her in a very PERSONAL EXCLUSIVE WAY)
her: oh i know, i have been thinking about joining you guys (usually i run with my buddy during lunch)
Me: well he doesn't run with me that much anymore so it will be just me and you
her: oh that's cool.

GOOD!

Me: Or if lunch times dont work for you, we can run after work. what time you get out?
her: i usually get out at 4.
Me: well whenever is cool with you, just hit me up and let me know.
her: OK, ya. HOw far do you usually run?
Me: i usually run like 3 miles
her: wow that's too far for me, i was thinking of like doing 2 miles or something
Me: well just let m know if you WANT TO RUN WITH ME.. i go in here lunch times everyday, just feel free to hit me up

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SMACKS FOREHEAD.

Just let her decide everything, why don't you. Give her all the decision and power. That's not good. Still, great you approached! Keep it up!

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

Too much questioning/negotiating going on here. From now on you're going to tell her what she's going to do, and if not, to hell with her.

 

[909pua]

ok guys, the next morning class is tuesday so for sure im gonna go. at that point, im gonna tell her to join me for some friday night drinks at BJs.

 

[pua1989]

yea and make sure you get a bj while youre at it